Was he flirting. giving me smokes and there was a guy there and he kept saying his checking me out asking him if he likes me and saying she's mine?

[Anonymous]

• In my twenties and his almost 40. His a cool guy. Rides his motorcycle and his car. Tattoos and is a chill guy Where as I'm like the wallflower shy and introverted. I have like one tattoo.
• His best friends with my older sisters. He says little sis to me. I met him a few years ago and this year again. We dressed up not so fancy or anything to go somewhere for the day and he was Invited. When he greeted me with a hug he said something about pretty Half of everyone was flat on their asses before 12 the afternoon and everyone was just chilled and some we're agitated having their problems.
• I'm drinking slowly not trying to get drunk So I'm wearing my sunglasses for the sun and I'm watching everything. He and my brother in law notice me and say where's your drink. They pour me one and is like your the only one here whose chill and have our vibe and not flipping on them.
• He keeps telling me to sit next to him and every time I walk somewhere and come back he calls me from where he is to come to him. He tries taking my sunglasses off and I say no I'm want to wear it cause I don't like the sun.
• He says who am I trying to be pretty for. At some point we're eating our barbecue and I'm sitting on the chair with my feet propped on the other one laying basically, He comes over to Pour a drink and throws me with a ice cube I laugh and throw it back at him.
• My other brother in law keeps asking him does he know someone I could dated and his like yeah me but I can't at the moment though. He keeps saying he really thought I was married or something. At some point I notice each time I'm sitting at a different area he comes over. And it's deliberately cause I was sitting at a table and I saw him say to my brother lets go sit with her.
• Keeps calling me his bro and we do a bro handshake. Rubbing the top of my head. Bumping my arm and giving me smokes. Making a joke to about undressing cause of some offer throwing water at him. Added some details in the title cause of character count

[Oliverlogan263]

Ok girl, from all that, it definitely sounds like he was into you! Some signs:

- Constantly wanting you close by, having you sit by him
- Commenting on your looks in a flirty way
- Doing little affectionate touches like rubbing your head
- Going out of his way to come sit by you when you moved
- Saying you were "his" to that other guy checking you out
- Joking about undressing together

Guy is totally flirting! Even if he said he can't date "at the moment", he's making it clear he's interested.

You may be shy, but it seems like he really likes that about you. I'd say start lightly flirting back - smile more at his jokes, touch his arm when you laugh, see how he reacts.

If things progress more, don't be afraid to make a move! He's showing all the signs of wanting you too. Even if it's just casually hooking up for now since he says he can't date, seems like you two really vibe. Go for it, sis!

[strateguy632]

yes that was flirt