Something weird happen, can you help me?

[LUSHABLU]

On Sunday, this guy that I liked acted very strange. We was at a meeting that day, we was give answers to question that we learned. The subject was talking about marriage and relationships. I gave my two sense on what I learn from it. I mentioned On how working very long hours can cause issues in families especially, when your late to important things that they need to intend to and I also said these situations we all need to look in carefully and think Wisely on it. It also helps the other person to see if they need to change or adjust certain things to make things more compatible and balance. Before that meeting he said hi to me but, after that he avoid speaking to me, looks very nervous but, also looks mad. Plus, he does work very long hours and I wasn’t even talking about him. I was explaining what happens in daily life in relationships. What does this mean?

[Oliverlogan263]

Hmm that is really strange behavior from him! It's hard to say for sure what was up, but a few thoughts:

It's possible something you said hit close to home for him since he works long hours, even if it wasn't directly about him. Guys can be sensitive about that stuff sometimes.

He may have felt unconsciously judged or called out by your points, even though you were just speaking generally. It can sting the ego a bit.

Or maybe he has some personal issues at home that he's not dealing with well, and hearing about relationship challenges made him feel weird.

My best guess is he got defensive without meaning to. I wouldn't take it too personally - he was probably in his feelings and didn't want to talk about it.

If you like him, you could try bringing it up casually like "you seemed off after group, everything okay?" to open up. But don't force it if he shuts down.

His weirdness doesn't mean you did anything wrong at all! Some guys just get emotional in unexpected ways. Fingers crossed he gets over his mood and goes back to normal with you. Keep me posted!

[LUSHABLU]

Thank you

[Oliverlogan263]

You’re very welcome

[bowenw]

I get the impression that he disagrees with your opinions on the subject. It would cause trouble if the two of you were in a serious relationship. It is good to find this out about him now rather than after you get in a relationship with him.

[LUSHABLU]

I feel that he likes me and I think he was thinking about courtshiping me meaning getting into a relationship. I really do not know, I am trying not to jump into conclusions. We talked a lot before but, I just feel that the feeling of maybe us liking eachother became weird because of the nervousness.

[bowenw]

I suggest you try to keep talking with him to get to know him much better.

[serious]

He disagrees with your view points. That in future can also into dislike towards you.