Weird thing just happened to me. What should I think of it?

[Anonymous]

Why would guy contact a girl through his friends account on Facebook?


I had a fall out with a guy. now his friend sends me voice messages and the voice was exactly like the guy that dumped me. In the voice message I was asked out on a date.

[Anonymous]

If I were you I wouldn’t even respond. You’d be surprised how harshly a guy can take a falling out, and 9/10 it’s because he feels like you wasted his time and trying to get even. That’s what happened for me at least. Spent a few weeks chatting to this guy and ultimately it wasn’t working out so I tried cutting ties. Didn’t end well and we deleted each other. Then his friend comes around in my DM trying to chat to me, ask me out etc. I didn’t fall for it then I found out it was the other guy trying to coach him and get me caught up.

[Asker]

But he dumped me

[Opinion Owner]

Even if he dumped you, he can still be feeling some sort of way over the circumstances as to why he felt the need to cut ties. Regardless, I wouldn’t engage his friend, because even if it were him behind the scenes and he had genuine intentions, he could contact you personally or at least say that it is him reaching out. The fact that it’s being done how it is genuinely gives the impression that he’s trying to be shady.

[Asker]

If he feels some type of way does he have feelings?

[Opinion Owner]

I would not say that is him having feelings for you — it is him trying to get some sort of revenge because he is put out. These are negative feelings he is acting on, not positive ones. Otherwise he would not be trying to trick you into going on a date with his friend.

[Asker]

Or he wants me to break no contact and talk about those messages…

[Opinion Owner]

Doubtful.

[Asker]

Luckily I said that I’m not interested

[Opinion Owner]

That’s the best thing to do, so good on you. I wouldn’t say anything else if he tries engaging again.

[Guy13]

Maybe he did not want a history that he sent it directly. It doesn't make a lot of sense though.

[Asker]

You mean he didn’t want to send it in his name?

[Guy13]

Yes, I suppose or he would have, right?

[Asker]

True…

[Asker]

But he has my number too…

[Guy13]

I really don't know BUT I can tell you think he is up to something... what is it?

[slatyb]

You should block the friend too. Ewww.