Guys, when a guy acts a bit friendly/flirty in person but ignores your dm on social media, does it mean he’s not interested?

[Anonymous]

There’s a guy who my brothers fiancé and my friends think was trying to flirt with me at a party but when I sent him a message later, he left me on delivered. However, he’s seen my stories so I know he’s been active. Does that mean he’s not interested?

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I guess he opened it and just didn’t respond but either way🤷🏻‍♀️

[Summeroflove]

Probably yeah if someone’s obviously been online but can’t give you the time of day, sure if someone’s busy and has a life outside of social media okay that’s one thing.

At the end of the day though if someone’s not putting effort in and flat ignoring you it’s rude and you should move on. More then likely he’s lost interest but is too cowardly do just give closure, maybe he’s keeping you on the back burner, or maybe he’s playing games. Hard to tell but if I were you I would just give yourself closure that if he was interested he would show it just like you did.