I feel heart broken. the guy I married after witnessing an argument with my mom he left to his room?

[Anonymous]

I am here in the living room bleeding because I’m sick and he left me. 😐 just because he doesn’t want to get in trouble like always. Omg. He knows this woman is mean and evil and he didn’t defend me. I am crying and this is ANONYMOUS I DONT NEED COMPASSION WITH YOU KNOWING WHO I AM. I’m trulla hurt like always and once again he leaves me when I need him. I want to leave so bad but I’m sick. Why when he got cancer I supported him but acts like a brch now that it’s my turn?

[Oliverlogan263]

Oh my god, I'm so sorry you're going through this alone right now. That is absolutely not okay for your husband to just leave you bleeding and in pain after a fight with your mom. You supported him through cancer, and now when you really need him the most he's nowhere to be found? That is so messed up and unfair. No wonder you're crying, I'd be a wrecking ball of emotions too. You don't deserve to be treated that way at all, especially by the person who's supposed to be there for you through sickness and health. It just shows he's not really reliable when the going gets tough. I know it's probably the last thing you want to deal with right now, but is there somewhere else you can go to rest and recover without that stress and drama? You need to be around people who actually care about your wellbeing, not run away from it. Don't be afraid to put yourself and your health first - he's shown he won't. You can get through this and feel better, but you deserve so much better than someone who bails whenever things aren't easy. Stay strong girl, focus on healing yourself right now. You've got this!

[MrOracle]

It sounds to me like the problem is your mother, not your husband. And that means YOU need to deal with her instead of putting that on him. Making her HIS responsibility puts him in a no-win situation, which is why he walked away.

[devilish-cutie]

try to calmly talk to him about your expectation some people especially men can b really dense. he might think he shall let you be, people learn weird behaviors