I don't know if this is weird but is it ok if my boyfriend is out with his guys rn on his bday and I am alone ar my place?

[Anonymous]

[Saramad_Hill]

No, you feel how you feel and that is okay. His buddies are allowed to spend some time with him, but... I will say this, it would be very awesome if he sets aside some special time for the two of you as well.

You feel left out, and maybe taking you a long could have worked but it looks like it's too late to ask for that.

So, friend time and partner time can be separated or even combined sometimes. You need to make some suggestions like 'I wanted to do something with you for your birthday because we're partners and I value you.'

But if he comes home, gives you a kiss on the cheek and hops on TV or something... I'd definitely ask about that and make your feelings known.

As an example: four hours with the bros or family, four hours with the loving partner. Maybe even a dinner date or just something in general to show he still likes you. Yes, it's his birthday and he can do what he wants... but excluding you all day would still be disrespectful. Relationships aren't about me, me, me.

[ohsheeT]

That is very weird you would think that you would come first it really kind of sucks that he's that way it kind of shows what priorities he has for you I'm sorry that you have to go through this

[avery58]

I mean it's not bad I guess... It's his birthday, maybe he wanted a guy's day. As long as he doesn't make a habit to spend more time with them than you. But other than that, it's his birthday and I think he should enjoy it as he wants to. There should be enough trust, if there isn't then you have to ask yourself why.

[jojouzumaki]

Don’t take it personal. It his birthday so let him celebrate it the way he wanted EVEN if it’s not with you. Relationships work from understanding rather than succumbing ourselves from “why not with me?” Your goal is to make him enjoy his day and that’s what matters.

[Daniela1982]

He can enjoy it with both. Why was she not invited unless he was going to a strip club?

[jojouzumaki]

we can say that. but again he have his own mind to decide. we can’t control it neither decide where his happiness lies. why can’t we trust someone and tell them we love them? isn’t one the essential recipe of the relationship?

[Viking_Girl19]

No, this is absolutely not abnormal. If you are in a relationship and love each other, then you want to spend such special days together. It's com on's birthday. What could be better than celebrating it with your beloved boyfriend/girlfriend?

Of course, the fact that he has many male friends is good and it is his right. But you should stand for him in priority above them.

[Daniela1982]

When he comes home and wants some nookie tell him he can have it with his friends. I guess after 2 years the thrill is gone.

[exitseven]

That is an awesome response

[HighValue]

That depends. What happened on your birthday? And have things been discussed previously for expectations in the relationship? And why couldn't you come with him and his friends?

[Apple1996]

He would have invited you out to if he acutally cared. That's crazy weird to want to hang out with friends over a partner for a birthday

[sadstrawberry]

Lol can you freely video call him? Or if he is not picking up he would be fucking around I don't know

[ChicoFromThe305]

Yea it's okay, I'm sure you might feel some lack of comfort from the idea of the relationship is new but trust him

[OfDeath]

That’s pretty fucked up. He didn’t even invite his girlfriend out with him on his birthday? What a douche bag. You’re obviously not high on his list of priorities. You should dump him.

[12karen]

It's okay, it's his bday not yours, let him enjoy his day and he'll enjoy you during the night

[Still-alive]

you probably spend an enormous amount of time out with him most days anyways. one day won't hurt you... or it shouldn't

[Anonymous]

Not weird. Send him a picture of your boobs.

[SixFootSexy]

This, this girl gets it.

[Alex-Snow]

Kinda weird if you want my opinion. I guess he does not want to have sex on his birthday?

[kaucky1]

If comes home gives kiss tastes a dick, just leave unless it's your house

[noohair]

People tend to be with people they love on their birthday.

[Jmmmfi4]

YOU GOTTA DECIDE IF THATS A PROBLEM FOR YOURSELF

WE can't MAKE UP YOUR MIND FOR YOU

[spartan55]

Did you make plans for him for his birthday?

[LiamJHayden]

How long have you been dating?

[Asker]

Almost 2 years

[Danny_dan92]

He’s on the “bro’s before hoes” mentality

[DerekC321]

That's totally not okay. Get out.

[Jamie05rhs]

Did he not invite you?

[WhitneySnow]

Not ok

[Avicenna]

Nope

[Twalli]

It's his birthday

[negrl4a69]

He's a lame