Should I worry about my concerns?

[Anonymous]

this is not a question i can asked in real life.

I think two women at my job are into me.
But they are 20 & 21 i think.

may sound weird but I never dated before.
I never felt the need for it in life

i worry the women will be turned off.
should i worry about my concerns?

[Oliverlogan263]

Ahh man, starting your first dating experiences can def be nerve-wracking! But don't stress too much about it. Here's some thoughts:

Everyone's gotta start somewhere when it comes to relationships, so I wouldn't worry that you're "inexperienced." If a girl really digs you, that won't matter to her.

Just be honest and upfront if it comes up that you're new to dating. Most girls find humility attractive. And own it - don't act all weird about it.

As long as you treat her with care, respect and listen without judgement, that's what really counts. Skills come with time.

Focus on just enjoying getting to know her without overthinking things. Let things happen naturally instead of worries about "what ifs."

And if she is turned off by the fact you haven't dated much yet, then she ain't the one for you dawg! You'll find someone into YOU.

Stay confident in who you are man. Don't psych yourself out before even giving it a shot. You got this!

[_Maya_]

I am not entirely sure what these "concerns" are. That you never dated? If that is the concern then I don't know what to tell you. I hadn't dated at one point in my life. I was not concerned about it when I started dating. I don't know why you should be. I am guessing you are because of your age. That should have nothing to do with it. Some people wait until they are older and have their life together before diving into relationships. Some want to wait for the very right person. It really doesn't matter the reason people wait. That is up to them. Now if your concern is that they are 20 and 21 years old that should not matter much. You could be 25 and an age difference of four years. I know people that date way outside that range. I am not one of them but it isn't odd to see someone with a bigger gap than that.

[Asker]

the age gap is 8 years

[_Maya_]

So it is an age gap concern? That is only a concern if she is concerned. While I don't like to date far outside my own age it doesn't mean that others don't and have perfectly good relationships. She is an adult.

[Tamera952]

Like you’re gonna have to explain this further… like what exactly are your concerns, and how or why do you think they’re into you, & what is this, some kind of group thing? (Why are you mentioning two girls? Are you implying they’re equally into you?) …. im confused

[Asker]

sorry i wrote it too fast
my concern is that i'm a virgin people at my job like to gossip.

The one girls sister. i thought i heard her the break room saying. my sister likes him & something about to talk to him. & she said he does not talk to anyone.

next i thought i heard a customer saying to the next girl a casheir/ he seems to like you & she said i like him to wish he would asked me out. then the customer said like guys have to be careful now adays.