Why do men see the number of relationships as something to be praised?

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Finchie40 · Accepted Answer

Probably because it boosts their ego , that they were wanted by a lot of girls’ making themselves feel like they are the man , cuz so many girls’ fell for him. So it put a big head on his shoulders , thinking to himself that he is desirable and attractive , giving him a boost of confidence to himself , that he can get any girl he wants. Only selfish immature people think this way , Girls’ do this shit as well , that think she is better than everyone around her , that she can get any man she wants. It’s sadly pathetic to watch and witness happen , but sadly it happens more than we think and shockingly people fall for it , so they keep doing it. Only people with good morals see through that nonsense and shake their heads on how pathetic that person is acting , like their shit doesn’t stink. Thinking they were put on Earth to be catered to and praised by everyone else around them. Like they are the star of the show. They practically grew up being told they do no wrong , they were always told they were right and never wrong. Mommy and Daddy held their hands at all times like they were perfect. They were more than likely born with a silver spoon in their hands , they don’t know what the word No means , because they were never taught No , which turned them into self centered arrogant bastards , that make them think they are better than everyone around them , body count and number of relationships means absolutely nothing , it mainly means you can’t give the same way you want to receive , a person with a high body count or a high number of relationships pretty much means they are the problem , not their exes

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

For men it’s different compared to women. Most women don’t have to do much to get a man to want to pursue them. At least in the beginning. So for a lot of women it’s easier to end up in a relationship vs a man. A man has to bring a lot of things upfront for a girl to even give him a chance. So he needs to build himself up to get a shot. I don’t think it’s so much men that praise it, it’s women. Women like an accomplished man. Women also tend to go after a man who other women want as well. Men know this so this is what many of us will try to obtain, status because we know that a majority of women are straight yes to that. Men aren’t really attracted to status. So that’s why it doesn’t really work the other way around. If a girl had been w a lot of men it’s a turn off for most men. Her high earning status doesn’t make her more sexy or more attractive to a majority of men.

PeachyPie93 · Accepted Answer

I don't think people do.. only immature guys praise each other for that. I personally hate high body counts on anyone..

Nikki1989 · Accepted Answer

People have always looked up to winners. It is natural for most to want to succeed in life.

Billlewis · Answer

My views on this subject are the same as they've always been -- women should be praised for engaging in multiple sexual relationships with men, while men are generally best served having few to even no sexual relationships prior to settling down with their eventual wife or long term female partner.

Pete671 · Answer

I assume in women? low number might make the girl unobtainable or not that interested in sex, high number might also put guys off because the girl might be thought of seeing men as disposable,,,

But as for body count, to me, a high one is a turn-on,,,

Nonamez · Answer

This applys for egoistic Alpha males or complete loosers , no brains , but big libido / drive ( but doesn't mean they are good in sex ) no self respect, low mindset, for them quantity is above quality , no respect to women

ProbablyClueless · Answer

It's a sign of our desirability. A guy who has dated lots of women is a guy who a lot of women want to be with.

genericname85 · Answer

because people praise hard things to do. not easy things to do. that's why women aren't praised for this but men are.

TonyMetal___86 · Answer

That's called stupidity, only teenagers thinks like that... I'm curious to know what does the photo have to do with your question? 😄

Jennz6 · Answer

I’m not sure but I have known men that love being controlled by a Mistress

DrPepper12 · Answer

Beats me! I think quality AND quantity are both aspirational. How else are you supposed to improve?

MrCharlie13 · Answer

Do they? I've never cared for how many relationships a potential partner has had. I and most people I know don't care for it either

debtfree_oneyear · Answer

Number of relationships? I don't understand the question

Slim57 · Answer

I don't? If I could've chosen I would be happier with one relationship than several that didn't work out.

red-lipstick-girl · Answer

People like that have no brains.

Dongie · Answer

Do they? I wasn't aware of that.

woahhh152 · Answer

I don't. It shows they suck at relationships

Luckycharms12 · Answer

where did you get this idea

CubaPirate · Answer

This one doesn't

pacifix · Answer

Nobody praises that lol

MasterKS · Answer

It shows how experienced she is!

Anonymous · Answer

I don't, I actually have 0 (Zero) relationships.

jahaims · Answer

What

Reijen · Answer

You sure about that?

Anonymous · Answer

What?

Anonymous · Answer

How so?

Why do men see the number of relationships as something to be praised?

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