He's a womenizer, and i'm one of his victims. what should I do or tell him?

[Anonymous]

Me and the girls in ly classroom realized that the same guy has been flirting and saying same things to each of us. i want to confront him about it, but im not sure its a good decision. can someone please tell me what to do?

[Anonymous]

Whoa! You mean he actually FLIRTED with a few people? Holy crap! You really ARE a victim! Sounds like there were LOTS of victims! This dude FLIRTED with GIRLS! I think you should call the cops. I'm sure the campus cops at least would make sure he gets tossed out for this VILE crime!

[Asker]

i don't you quite understand what is going. as i mantioned in my ask and some comments, the guy says the same thing to the girls in my classroom and those girls are my friends. imagine a guy flirts with you and it makes you feel special, then the next day you learn that he said the exact same things to your best friend. and that he is aware that that girl is your best friend, but still he said does things to her. won't you feel disgusted?

[Opinion Owner]

Disgusted? Did anyone have sex? Get blown? A handjob? Mutually masturbate? Get naked? Make out? Kiss even? Hold hands maybe?

No I don't think I could imagine being disgusted when LITERALLY NOTHING HAPPENED!

[Asker]

i see that this topic isn't one for you since you're a 36~45 year old guy and im just an 18 year old girl. this may seem cringe or unreasoning to you but it isn't to me.

[Opinion Owner]

You're an adult! You really need to figure this sort of thing out in college. You probably should've figured it out before then. Maybe not TOTALLY but enough to get along.

[Asker]

I just want him to leave me alone sir

[Opinion Owner]

Just stop talking to him. It's not that tough.

[Asker]

will do :)

[Opinion Owner]

thanks for SUPERB opinion!

[seeyounexttuesday]

you're not a victim if he's just been flirting with you, lol.

[Asker]

i meant it in a sense that he targets specific girls and says the exact same thing to all of them. so i used to term victim.

[seeyounexttuesday]

lol. what do you hope to accomplish by confronting him.

[Asker]

simply telling him to leave me alone?

[seeyounexttuesday]

then tell him to leave you alone.

[Abbycado]

Not worth starting stuff. Just ignore him. If he asks why the cold shoulder then tell him what you know.

[Asker]

He lives around the neighborhood and he intentionally waits for me so we would walk to school together. should i say something about that or just ignore him? i never flirted back and im not interested in him at all.

[Abbycado]

I’d say just ignore in my opinion. If or when he asks what’s up, then tell him you know about the flirting and that you aren’t interested. That’s what I would do, personally.

[Nikki1989]

Avoid him at all costs. Prioritize your own safety and well-being.

[Asker]

thank you, i'll try to do that.

[shu2905]

Ignore and move on to a better person

[MasterKS]

Just leave him alone and do your stuffs!

[Asker]

im not interested in him at all. i dont flirt back, but even so he keeps doing that with me.

[MasterKS]

@asker tell him openly!