Why hasn’t he married his baby’s mom?

[Anonymous]

I have a coworker who seems to be a nice guy. He’s young (29-31) with 3 daughters by the same woman which is beautiful. They practically have everything a couple would have.. a house, kids etc.. but why no ring yet?

even if they hold off on a wedding. I’m just curious.. as someone with no kids or boyfriend

[alice55]

Because men want to be able to abandon everything and have no repercussion for it. Why would he get married if have everything a married man has? Women need to stop acting like a wife if the man refuse to commit to them.

Also he's most likely not faithful to her neither serious about her in my country men always say they act different with a girlfriend and a wife like "it's not cheating she's just a girlfriend not like I'm going to marry her" "she's just a girlfriend nothing serious" etc... it doesn't matter if they have kids of not as they just abandon their kids. In my country you just have to send a paper to a judge and there done you abandoned your kids no need to pay...

[HelpfulWoman]

i mean, saves money. its not necessary for a healthy relationship to need one, so they haven't. doesn't mean they won't eventually.

[Asker]

Very true. I’m sure they have a good relationship

[Ariesman81]

Are they religious? A marriage by the state is a death sentence for the man. And paper means nothing about a woman's loyalty. A dark reality of our times.

I have come to the conclusion that the woman who is loyal to me will be the beneficiary on all accounts so long as her loyalty is unwavering. I don't need documents to be faithful, loyal and committed. The woman who follows me to the end will be rewarded for her loyalty... not because the state says I owe it to her because she's a woman.

Now, if they are active in a church. That's a bit different.

[Asker]

I don't know about all that. He doesn’t seem overly religious

[Ariesman81]

Well... that would probably explain why he doesn't feel obligated to marry her

[spartan55]

Sounds like none of your business. THREE kids in his twenties? Sounds like you will have to bring the condoms.

[Asker]

Why would I need to bring to bring condoms? I’m just asking in general… I see it all over the world.. but I can’t imagine bringing a child into the world with someone I’m not married to.

[AviatorTom]

Maybe she and he don't view marriage as worthwhile, and are happy with their relationship.

[Danny_dan92]

Because he liked the sex. But not the woman… if that doesn’t make sense, I don’t know how else to explain it

[slatyb]

Maybe she doesn't want one.

[chocolatetwopointo]

bc they dont wanna get married? isn't it obvious?

[In_Trance]

Not everyone believes in the Church and State