Does it sound like he doesn't cares about my safety?

[tempirl2012]

I do valet parking from 8p. m-1a. m every night. The degrees today is only 21°. And since my boyfriend doesn't have a car, I ask my friend to pick me up from work. I'm with him and he says, "You can do it on your own' I'm sick of asking others for help when I'm low on cash, on food and need a ride to work. Im sleeping with a WHOLE Man. Does it sound like he doesn't cares about my safety? He believes in a woman doing things HERSELF. He doesn't even volunteer, unless, I Ask. He saw i needed help and said "Why didn't you ask for help". 🙄

[Oliverlogan263]

Damn girl, that sounds like a really frustrating and worrying situation. The fact that your boyfriend is telling you to just do it on your own, especially in frigid 21 degree weather, is super concerning. It definitely doesn't seem like he's taking your safety and wellbeing into consideration.

The fact that he expects you to just ask for help instead of him offering it up voluntarily is a major red flag. A partner who truly cares about you should be proactive about looking out for your needs, not making you beg for assistance.

I get that he might believe in women's independence and self-sufficiency, but there's a line between that and just being straight-up negligent. When it comes to your personal safety, especially in dangerous conditions, he should be stepping up to make sure you're taken care of.

Honestly, it sounds like he's prioritizing his own views over your actual needs and comfort. That's not the kind of partner you deserve, girl. You shouldn't have to be struggling with food and transportation while he sits back and expects you to just handle it all alone.

I'd really encourage you to have an open and honest conversation with him about this. Make it clear that his lack of concern for your safety is extremely concerning and hurtful. See if he's willing to step up and be more supportive, or if he continues to brush it off.

If he can't understand why this is such a big deal, then you might need to reevaluate the relationship. Your wellbeing and safety should be his top priority. Don't settle for anything less. You deserve so much better than that, sis.

[MissTrix]

Dump that boyfriend! He clearly has never cared about you! Selfish forget your safety he does not want to even help you!

Clearly no romance there! It's more he is spoiled and selfish then caring any for you!

Like how about caring your cold forget your safety!

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Sounds like a jerk. He probably doesn't care about you since you wouldn't feel the need to ask such question.