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Why do men think being called ”sexy” ”hot” and such, are compliments?

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  • errorgoodnameunfound
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    1 y

    Yah.. time and place plays a factor... But are we seriously at a point where calling girls slang for attractive is bad? Seriously? Jfc this why some guys are so toxic now. Many are fed up with this shit. 65% of the worlds male population would slaughter just for the chance to be called "somewhat cute" by anyone other than their mom. But meanwhile, girls are suddenly offended by slang ish compliments? They're COMPLIMENTS ffs! Wtf. Don't whine when you're older then that you regret not wanting to hear it towards you. Jfc.

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    • chocolatetwopointo
      chocolatetwopointo
      1 y

      id kms if a guy complimented me in any way

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    • errorgoodnameunfound
      errorgoodnameunfound
      1 y

      You don't want compliments... ever?

      Like Zi was indicating women are spoiled af in this regard usually. Compliments and attention abound that they don't appreciate until they're old and get nothing.

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    • chocolatetwopointo
      chocolatetwopointo
      1 y

      nope. okay? not every woman is the same yk?

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    • errorgoodnameunfound
      errorgoodnameunfound
      1 y

      I'd like to hear the same exact thing when you turn 70. Come back to me then.

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    • chocolatetwopointo
      chocolatetwopointo
      1 y

      sure, ill never want ur compliments.

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    • chocolatetwopointo
      chocolatetwopointo
      1 y

      fkn men thinking they’re superior. not everyone wants ur attention 24/7.

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    • errorgoodnameunfound
      errorgoodnameunfound
      1 y

      Other men were right that you don't read. I specifically said time and place. First thing.

      For somebody hating on Americans and men so much, ya surely have quite a bit of flaws yourself. British I'm guessing? Maybe South African or Australian? I can guess those by attitude alone.

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    • errorgoodnameunfound
      errorgoodnameunfound
      1 y

      by the way why would I compliment you? You're 16 and I don't know you. If I saw you in real life I'd say exactly the same and walk away. You're too dumb and young for me.

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    • chocolatetwopointo
      chocolatetwopointo
      1 y

      yeah ik? and i do read. im saying, dont go up to a stranger and tell them they’re sexy and expect her to like it. LMAO im swedish. i didn't ask for YOUR compliments, i meant men in general. thank god. if u complimented me id be even more weirded out by u.

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    • errorgoodnameunfound
      errorgoodnameunfound
      1 y

      Ah Swedish. Figured at least European. Any gal I met from there was either too proud of her country to talk to me or very very friendly but possibly naiive.

      This is making sense. Anyways, you do realize "TIME AND PLACE" means not on the street randomly right? You said you read but I'm calling out the lie.

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    • errorgoodnameunfound
      errorgoodnameunfound
      1 y

      by the way I'm the type to tell guys around me NOT to cat call and trashing them for doing so. You're calling the wrong guy. Go tell off the ones that actually do cat call and are stupid enough to simp like that. If you hate them so much, go anon on any Instagram or Twitch thot area and trash the simps there instead of shitting on guys here. Like goddam, girls really don't know their own enemy sometimes. Naiive af until it's too late.

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    • chocolatetwopointo
      chocolatetwopointo
      1 y

      i hope yk there's a reason why everyone hates americans lmao💀i do read. time and place can mean randomly on the street. ok? want a medal for respecting women? ur obvi part of the problem if ur arguing ab it with me. yea i alr do that. ur literally part of the problem, god i hate men.

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    • errorgoodnameunfound
      errorgoodnameunfound
      1 y

      Oh deal lord that was my ex's answer. "No reward for respecting women". No duh. Funny enough I think she misses me now. I know people hate Americans but as I've shown, it's sometimes unfairly. Especially Euro brats who shit on Americans constantly yet think think LA is 5 minutes from NYC. Time and place means there are SPECIFIC times and places to use the language but ofc, you pretend it only means random on the street. Other men have pointed this out and you completely ignored it. You say you hate men (barely giving a reason) but then say plastic surgery is OK. Tf is wrong with you? Funny enough, I do not hate men or women because I have family with both. I have friends of both. You don't?

      I am part of the solution. Calling out simps and brats like you who target all men instead of the simps. You're 16 and it shows that's for damn sure.

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    • chocolatetwopointo
      chocolatetwopointo
      1 y

      ew comparing me to ur ex.. yeah no, i can tell u, she doesn't. lmao its jokes they obvi knows how the country works and where stuff is, unlike americans. and those specific can be at night on the street lmao i dont get ur point. nah not only, but in some cases it is, if ur saying that to ur girlfriend while having sex idgaf, im js saying u can't go up to a woman and expect she’ll like it. what men? and when did i ignore it? okay so what does me hating men have anything to do with plastic surgery?💀 i only have family of men, can't really chose my family. i personally wouldn't choose to be friends with a man. what solution? how am i a simp or brat? god ur one of those ”its not all men😣🥺👉👈” like js stfu. it shows ur American and a man. fkn idiot.

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    • errorgoodnameunfound
      errorgoodnameunfound
      1 y

      "ew comparing me to ur ex.. yeah no, i can tell u, she doesn't".
      Well. She said your exact words. Word for word. If you want to deny reality, go ahead. But it won't just go away.

      And no, it's really not. They have legit planned that kind of thing before. They go into Reddit asking where "all the trams and subways will be" when they arrive in Iowa. Go see for yourself. Europeans are 100% not as smart as they think of themselves to be. And many Americans have so much more of a heart and a brain if given the chance to show it.

      Me and many other dudes on here pointed out it should be OK in places such as the bedroom but you never found a way to agree did you? You just want arguments. Forget agreeing even on one thing. Nope, have to argue just because even if there's agreeable points

      "okay so what does me hating men have anything to do with plastic surgery?💀 "

      Why else would you get plastic surgery? You're a lesbian? You really believe you'll "feel better"? I'm not so sure.

      You're also legit resorting to text message language at this point. I'm no grammar nazi, but again, I thought you Euros are so much smarter and more proper?

      Huge feeling you're a lesbian and/or gonna be a lonely cat lady.

      The funny thing is, I know for a fact that I'm one of the absolute least toxic guys out there that can point all this out. But as you've shown, girls aren't exactly always experts in sorting the good from bad.

      I guess your dad would be that one "not all men" exceptions unless you regret being born...

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    • chocolatetwopointo
      chocolatetwopointo
      1 y

      Why do u think id care what ur ex said? what reality? LMAO god americans can't even take a joke its crazyy. yeah no, they really dont lmao💀. idc what u call ur girlfriend in the bedroom, do wtv u want aslong as she likes it. but im talking ab when men come up to random women on the street and say it. thats when its a problem. oh my god. u seriously think women get plastic surgery for men? HAHAHHA WHAT. thats probably the stupidest shit I've ever heard from a man💀. only porn stars get plastic surgery for men. i would 100% feel better if i was pretty, r u dumb or smth?💀 why aren't u sure? why would i choose to be ugly when i can be pretty? u do realise im 16 years old right? I've known English was a language for maybe 6 years, i use shortings and English isn't my first language obvi its not gna be fuckinh perfect ffs. i could do it perfectly if i had the patience tho. and? is being a cat lady bad? id rather live peaceful than with ugly ass children + a man child as a husband, like HELL NO. and tbh i wish i was a lesbian, sadly i can't choose that. LMAO HAHAHAHA and how do yk ur the least toxic guy ever? r u one of those ”nice guys”? fkn retard man. yup but i prob wouldn't know him if it wasn't for him being my dad, as i said, i dont chose family. not everyone wants to be a basic bitch like you yk.

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    • errorgoodnameunfound
      errorgoodnameunfound
      1 y

      I'm just making comparisons. She's an ex for reason.

      And no, it's not a joke. Some Europeans are stupid and ignorant. Deal with it.

      You could've specified the part where "it's OK to say certain things in the bedroom"in the detail area. Would've saved a LOT of time.

      And yah, a lot women get it for the sake of men. Not just porn stars. Jeez you sure are defensive. I can see the sweat beads through the screen.

      Basically what you are saying though is you are not pretty. So you'll pay to be pretty. But... Why is "being pretty" so important to you? Again. Shallow. You're getting insult I've and defensive cause you got called out. I'm surprised you haven't blocked me and ran away yet.

      Abbreviations that you are using are considered what you're supposed to learn after the basics. I think there's more so laziness. But either way, it still doesn't look good when you're sitting there calling massive groups of others dumb. Spell check and grammarly exist ffs. I wouldn't say much if you weren't such a hypocrite.

      And ah yes. The nice guy shit. I LOVE when girls resort to that. What other ammo you got? Lonely? Incel? Who hurt you? I've heard it all. Most guys have. Doesn't affect us much. Cause we can actually handle being lonely ugly etc. and simply focus on more important thing. Apparently you can't. 🙂 I'll be putting my money into investments and such and meanwhile you're spending on making yourself plastic and fake.

      I'm actually surprised that as a most likely "liberal" Swede, you'd dare to use the word retard. Again. Hypocritical.

      American humor makes fun of Sweeden specifically for a reason sometimes. Well deserved. 🇺🇸

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    • chocolatetwopointo
      chocolatetwopointo
      1 y

      thank god, hopefully she found someone better, doubt that would be hard ngl. most r js making jokes, but if u can't accept that ig u do u. lmao i thought that went without saying💀 then why r u still here? oh really, what women? id love to know. i dont sweat, thats disgusting. pretty priviledge for one, i wanna be able to love what i see when i look in a mirror. would u seriously chose to be ugly when u can be pretty? fkn brokies istg. being pretty is important for anyone, but if ur poor js say so. and how is that shallow? why tf would i block u and run away when im literally in the right? god i hate men. ok wtv u say i really dont give a fuck if u think im a hypocrite, i dont take insults from americans hun💀 omg.. i never realised how hard u men have it.. u get told ur an incel like every single woman has been told at least once in their life, u really have it soo hard dont you? i can handle being lonely its so nice, but not ugly, if ur ugly ur js lazy asf or poor lmao. what more important things? i can focus on my career while i focus on my looks, if u can't, thats ur problem. and how can't i? ok good for u, so can i, ill save up and im studying to become a lawyer so i doubt money will be a huge problem, the only plastic surgery or changes i want is basically a nose job and i wanna dye my hair and facial hair, so ill js save up. not that hard, maybe for u tho. why is it bad to be fake? ah okay so now ur racist too? WOW such a generalization. and once again, how is that hypocritical? LMAO sweden will always be better than america so thats a one sided beef lol. and trust me, everyone will agree with me.

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    • errorgoodnameunfound
      errorgoodnameunfound
      1 y

      I don't know how you think any of that will convince me otherwise. If anything, you exposed exactly my points about women, Swedes, etc. so thanks! I uh.. that's a lot to read so give me a few more days or so. I'm the meantime, I think there's saunas are a thing in Sweeden? Very good for relaxing in the winter and/or while enraged. Go relax.🙂

      In the meantime, I am so happy to be elected supurb opinion. For somebody who trashed my opinion so much, I def am happy with being elected with that. 🙂

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    • SingleGuy101
      SingleGuy101
      1 y

      Men don't get compliments often. Most of us that are single like it when you make comments like that.

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  • Maybe_Maybe_not m
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    337 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

    The recipient of a compliment can appreciate it or reject it, depending on who they are, who is complimenting and the connection they have. You can't predict the fate of any compliment without knowing the aforementioned context between two persons. Now, praising sexual attraction is a touchy one, clueless people may distribute such a compliment without observing the recipient first, which equals playing roulette...

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  • Ms_Facesitter
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    593 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

    To me they are. They're saying you're sexually attractive. I'm attracted to men, so knowing that I'm attractive, feels good. Hearing about it constantly doesn't, because it makes you feel like a piece of meat, you know? Like the men who start out with "sexy and "hot" only think with their dick. In that scenario I don't care much about it. But when it comes from a good man? Hell yeah. I love it. It's a compliment.

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  • WhitneySnow
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    1.9K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

    They are, but they compliment only very specific aspects of a woman. And a lot of women don’t want those sorts of compliments from anyone but their partner. (Some don’t want them from anyone.)

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  • ohsheeT
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    821 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

    Well I think there's a time and a place for everything just out of the blue if you don't know somebody and you were to say that like a girl walking down the street or something you're right it's uncalled for

    But if your girlfriend is getting ready to go and you're both getting ready to go out and you look at her and you say well you are hot you are sexy then it's a whole different story

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    • ohsheeT
      ohsheeT
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      Or if I reread your question I can answer it by saying well because I have an ego and I like being called those names LOL sorry I had to say it.

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  • ShellyB
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    Yoda Age: 28 , mho 67%
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    I think they mean it as a compliment although I agree it isn’t necessarily received as a compliment. I think for them it means that you are something they want. By the way I also sometimes call girls sexy or hot but I just say it as like a statement of fact, not a compliment or an insult either one, it isn’t mostly an achievement to be sexy it is mostly luck (though being physically fit and how you dress and stuff like that can be a factor).

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    • ShellyB
      ShellyB
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      Also when I say it is “mostly luck” I don’t necessarily mean it is good luck, there is good and bad w it, I think sexy girls are extra likely to have weird things happen to them tbh.

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  • DryGermanGuy m
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    Master Age: 47 , mho 33%
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    863 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

    So, you want to decide this for all the women in this world, even for those who already indicated to us men liking it? You have some growing up to do.

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    • chocolatetwopointo
      chocolatetwopointo
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      trust me, no woman would want a stranger calling them sexy or hot. some dont ever like it.

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    • DryGermanGuy m
      DryGermanGuy
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      I don't trust you. Look at your age, then look at my age, then realize that I have met far, faaar more people in my life than you. And all of them come with their own set of ideas, beliefs and preferences.

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    • chocolatetwopointo
      chocolatetwopointo
      1 y

      why not? do u seriously think every woman wants to be called hot by a stranger? men istg. yet ur still stupid. so you’ve called women hot and sexy in the middle of the night before? creep…

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    • DryGermanGuy m
      DryGermanGuy
      1 y

      Obviously you have a few comprehension problems. But worry not, if you stay in school, these things should work out in the long run.

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  • Chillguy53
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    i like calling girls cute, it’s very rare that i see a girl and call her sexy.


    A sexy girl is one with a big ass and medium sized boobs with a nice face and blonde hair.


    Most girls these days are just cute and not sexy

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    • chocolatetwopointo
      chocolatetwopointo
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      ah okay. so cute is one ur fine with. and a sexy one is one u wanna fuck?

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    • Chillguy53
      Chillguy53
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      both of them i would want to have sex with

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    • Chillguy53
      Chillguy53
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      it’s just that sexy looks better than cute

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    • chocolatetwopointo
      chocolatetwopointo
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      but youd wanna have sex with the sexy one more

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    • chocolatetwopointo
      chocolatetwopointo
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      exactly. proving my point.

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  • chrissykerdock
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    wear a minidress and you'll get all those words said

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    • chocolatetwopointo
      chocolatetwopointo
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      r u incapable of reading?

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    • chrissykerdock
      chrissykerdock
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      i guess so

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  • This_Boy_Here
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    I mean, according to webster dictionary, it is a 'compliment'? lol That being said, I prefer it when people call me witty or funny. Or how they love my voice. But sometimes people call me 'different' as well, and I appreciate that too. I appreciate all 'compliments' people give to me, as long as it's not a disrespectful one.

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    • chocolatetwopointo
      chocolatetwopointo
      1 y

      sexy makes women feel like objects

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    • This_Boy_Here
      This_Boy_Here
      1 y

      Oh, I thought they were referring to when a guy gets compliments. 😆 I have gotten comments bout my having pretty eyes, sexy lips, or bout my body and I never took it like that.

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    • chocolatetwopointo
      chocolatetwopointo
      1 y

      ok good 4 u

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    • This_Boy_Here
      This_Boy_Here
      1 y

      Also, you might feel that way. But not all women think like you do, if it's coming from the right guy.

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    • chocolatetwopointo
      chocolatetwopointo
      1 y

      okay? im saying, dont go up to a stranger and call her sexy and expect her to like it, call her beautiful if u actually like her.

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  • Purpleronnie
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    326 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

    Those are not men , just monkeys with under evolved brains and overactive libido’s generally. There are females that are enamored by this though. Those that place great value / importance on being sexually desirable.

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  • hahahmm
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    1.4K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

    You will figure it out when you want guys to take you seriously & none of them will. You will whine about how you are "sexy" but guys will disagree.

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    • chocolatetwopointo
      chocolatetwopointo
      1 y

      i will never want guys to take me seriously and i really hope none of them will. why would i whine? i would never call myself sexy💀 hopefully they’ll disagree

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    • hahahmm
      hahahmm
      1 y

      @chocolatetwopointo When you were 5 you couldn't say for sure what you would or would not want 10 years later so it's laughable for you to think you can speak for your older self now. But good luck.

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    • chocolatetwopointo
      chocolatetwopointo
      1 y

      well i basically gained consciousness at like 12 so obviously i couldnt. i literally can tho, I've never had an interest in men. not everyone wants to be a basic bitch yk.

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  • D_Bone_Steak
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    I'm just trying to figure out how any answer to this will turn into an endless argument of what about isms.

    Just men though huh? You don't give up on your sexism much do you?

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    • chocolatetwopointo
      chocolatetwopointo
      1 y

      oh my god. how is it sexist? r u serious? when was the last time u got catcalled by a woman huh? huh? ill wait.

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    • chocolatetwopointo
      chocolatetwopointo
      1 y

      fucking retarded men i swear to fucking god wheres ur brain?

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    • D_Bone_Steak
      D_Bone_Steak
      1 y

      Yesterday... fat chicks don't stop. Anyways you were trying to say this isn't sexist? Point in case. You sexist.

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    • D_Bone_Steak
      D_Bone_Steak
      1 y

      This will be our theme song...
      https://youtu.be/a5uQMwRMHcs?si=ckC58RPr6d0KwFd0
      Let's go. I want to play this song during every response to this.

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    • chocolatetwopointo
      chocolatetwopointo
      1 y

      oh god. im too tired of men like u, bet ur a pedo and rapist, blocked.

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  • Cormac995
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    It literally is by definition a compliment. the definition of a compliment is "To politely congratulate someone or praise them for something." If you're calling a man hot or sexy you're saying he's good looking which by definition is a compliment.

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  • IslaTheWitch
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    because they would like to be called such :D

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  • strateguy632
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    Master Age: 50 , mho 34%
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    1.5K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

    Because those ARE compliments.

    What is wrong with you? Newspeak? Woke culture redefining words?

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    • chocolatetwopointo
      chocolatetwopointo
      1 y

      ah okay so u think women like being viewed as objects? when u call a woman sexy or hot, u wanna have sex with her, thats it.

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  • Miristheiss
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    Master Age: 35
    1 y
    1.2K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

    I don't know.

    Since men give 100% of the attention and compliments and women compliment men... never, I guess mathematically not all of the compliments will be the best.

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  • ImalwaysrightOK
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    Yoda Age: 37
    1 y
    342 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

    I've heard women friendzone guys that say pretty or beautiful but jump into bed with guys who call them hot or suggest they're dtf.

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    • chocolatetwopointo
      chocolatetwopointo
      1 y

      yh bc they’re looking for sex, not a relationship

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  • Bricealan
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    Master Age: 45
    1 y
    355 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

    @chocolatetwopointo I agree with you. The terms are really stupid and sexist, no matter where they come from and towards whom they are directed. Brainless, in my view.

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  • CaptainObivous
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    1 y

    Because they are compliments, especially when it's the woman you're dating. Just because you don't see them as compliments doesn't mean other women don't.

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  • Anonymous
    Anonymous
    (45 Plus)
    1 y

    In their mind its hot.
    "Thoughtful" and "considerate" would go a lot farther with woman, but wouldn't aim them in the direction of sex which is what they are after when making those comments.

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  • patrick994
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    Because basically they are not insults, then it depends on the way you say it, but basically they are compliments.

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  • andreasderjuengere
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    Because we think that ''''hideous'' ''lame'' and such are NOT compliments?

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    • chocolatetwopointo
      chocolatetwopointo
      1 y

      sexy and hot means u wanna have sex with them

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    • andreasderjuengere
      andreasderjuengere
      1 y

      Not necessarily so.
      For example: I love the looks of the sea. But I don't want to go swimming each day :)

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    • chocolatetwopointo
      chocolatetwopointo
      1 y

      ah okay so SEXy isn't SEXual?
      what does that have to do with anything?

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    • andreasderjuengere
      andreasderjuengere
      1 y

      it's ''sex-appeal'' --- to me.
      But I'm from a different century.

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    • chocolatetwopointo
      chocolatetwopointo
      1 y

      still sexual lol

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    • andreasderjuengere
      andreasderjuengere
      1 y

      Somewhat - yes. But I don't think that it is intrusive, or forced upon, when such a compliment (it still is one in my eyes) is given with respect.

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    • chocolatetwopointo
      chocolatetwopointo
      1 y

      ok u do u, but dont expect women to like it

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    • andreasderjuengere
      andreasderjuengere
      1 y

      I would not give a compliment to a perfect stranger. No one complained until now.

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    • chocolatetwopointo
      chocolatetwopointo
      1 y

      ok u do u js saying

      Reply
  • Summeroflove
    Summeroflove Follow
    Master Age: 30 , mho 41%
    1 y

    Depends on the guy. But probably because it works on SOME girls so they think it works on them all.

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  • Anonymous
    Anonymous
    (45 Plus)
    1 y

    Because to a lot of women they are. You’re a teenager. You’ll think differently w all things in life when you hit your 30s.

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    • chocolatetwopointo
      chocolatetwopointo
      1 y

      yeah no trust me ill never want a man to come up to me and tell me im hot or sexy, id literally kms

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    • Anonymous
      Opinion Owner
      1 y

      lol ok. Regardless you’ll change a lot in the way you think.

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    • chocolatetwopointo
      chocolatetwopointo
      1 y

      nope, still won't. I've had the exact same thoughts since i was 12. nothing ab me has changed since than except my height lmao

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  • HungTexan
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    I think it’s ok if you know the woman well. Otherwise, it depends on the situation.

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  • LiamS95
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    314 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

    Probably because most women perceive them as compliments.

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    • chocolatetwopointo
      chocolatetwopointo
      1 y

      what women?

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    • Crimsyjo
      Crimsyjo
      1 y

      I think they are compliments! Tho they lose there power by the fact so men say it to like every woman lol

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    • pongo
      pongo
      1 y

      What do you feel women prefer to be called? Beautiful? Pretty? Gorgeous? Sexy and hot are a more objective and somewhat aggressive compliments. If that makes any sense.

      Like...
      I want to make love to you all night long.
      AND
      I want to fuck the shit out of you.

      Same thing... Just a little more aggressive, possibly.

      Neither are wrong. It's a situational thing or personal preference.

      Agree? Disagree?

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  • BriannaLidle
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    Xper 2 Age: 28
    1 y

    How else would you describe someone's physical appearance? 🤔

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    • chocolatetwopointo
      chocolatetwopointo
      1 y

      I don't know maybe with non sexual words?

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  • HighlyQuestionable
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    1 y

    Because when we receive them (particularly from our chosen demographic), it feels pleasant.

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  • Anonymous
    Anonymous
    (30-35)
    1 y

    Whether or not something is a compliment is based solely on the intent of the person saying it. Whether or not you choose to take it as one is your problem.

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  • Staximus
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    Most women like to hear that if it's coming from a guy who they are sexually attracted to.

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  • SpaceGalaxy
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    409 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

    Most (not all, but most) women love hearing it from guys.

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    • chocolatetwopointo
      chocolatetwopointo
      1 y

      who said that?

      Reply
  • GlowUpGirly5
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    Xper 5 Age: 27
    1 y

    You're smart for a 16 year old

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    • chocolatetwopointo
      chocolatetwopointo
      1 y

      what makes u think that?

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    • GlowUpGirly5
      GlowUpGirly5
      1 y

      @chocolatetwopointo because of what you said. Most girls your age think being sexualized is a badge of honor. It's really not its insulting being viewed as an object and not a person. It's one thing for a man to say wow, you're beautiful, classy, and intelligent vs you're sexy and hot which means he only sees you in a sexual light

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    • chocolatetwopointo
      chocolatetwopointo
      1 y

      thank you, i try to make my friends understand sometimes but they dont listen sadly.

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    • GlowUpGirly5
      GlowUpGirly5
      1 y

      Sounds like you're too mature for your surroundings. You deserve better.

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  • Anonymous
    Anonymous
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    1 y

    I guess it's more polite to say beautiful or gorgeous.

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    • chocolatetwopointo
      chocolatetwopointo
      1 y

      so why dont they?

    • Anonymous
      Opinion Owner
      1 y

      They don't think at that moment.

    • chocolatetwopointo
      chocolatetwopointo
      1 y

      why?

    • Anonymous
      Opinion Owner
      1 y

      Because - when guys see a very attractive girl, their other "head" gets more blood than the brain.

    • chocolatetwopointo
      chocolatetwopointo
      1 y

      so they have to be disrespectful and rude?

    • Anonymous
      Opinion Owner
      1 y

      Some of them are like that, they probably think that girls appreciate that kind of compliments.
      Personally, I'm too shy, and I can't speak to girls that way.

  • moneymagnet24
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    Xper 7 Age: 25
    1 y

    I know it's not compliments
    Tell me something that I don't know

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  • Anonymous
    Anonymous
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    1 y

    It's a compliment that suggests he finds you appealing and desirable.

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    • chocolatetwopointo
      chocolatetwopointo
      1 y

      well, to women it seems like he only wants to have sex with you. so dont tell women that.

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    • Anonymous
      Opinion Owner
      1 y

      It's more than likely situational, I think. Someone could call you Gorgeous and only want sex. Or they could call you hot and only want to compliment you.

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    • chocolatetwopointo
      chocolatetwopointo
      1 y

      yh but thats usually not the case tho. the point is, women will think, that u view them as an object.

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  • PeachyPie93
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    It is a compliment.

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    • chocolatetwopointo
      chocolatetwopointo
      1 y

      how?

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    • PeachyPie93
      PeachyPie93
      1 y

      They are saying you are attractive and look good.

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    • chocolatetwopointo
      chocolatetwopointo
      1 y

      they’re saying they wanna fuck you.

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    • PeachyPie93
      PeachyPie93
      1 y

      If that is how you wanna take it, its still a compliment lol It's not that serious..

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    • chocolatetwopointo
      chocolatetwopointo
      1 y

      thats literally what they mean.. if they didn't they’d call u pretty.

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    • PeachyPie93
      PeachyPie93
      1 y

      Yeah but most guys only call you hot or sexy if you are dressed slutty.. they usually call you pretty or cute if you are dressed more covered in my experiences anyways..

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    • chocolatetwopointo
      chocolatetwopointo
      1 y

      yes.. which means they wanna fuck you.

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    • PeachyPie93
      PeachyPie93
      1 y

      And its still a compliment.. that you are attractive.. Doesn't mean you have to like the guy or even talk to him but it is still an ego booster..

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    • chocolatetwopointo
      chocolatetwopointo
      1 y

      ok u believe what u want. if u wanna be seen as an object, so be it.

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    • PeachyPie93
      PeachyPie93
      1 y

      I personally don't care since I am into men.. but if I don't want to be seen a certain way then I don't dress a certain way, It's pretty simple lol

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    • chocolatetwopointo
      chocolatetwopointo
      1 y

      i was called sexy while wearing baggy clothes, so that hasn't helped.

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    • PeachyPie93
      PeachyPie93
      1 y

      Then obviously its a compliment because he can't even see your body..

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    • chocolatetwopointo
      chocolatetwopointo
      1 y

      or he js wants to have sex with me

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  • Anonymous
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    (30-35)
    1 y

    My girlfriend prefers it when I call her hot over beautiful.

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    • chocolatetwopointo
      chocolatetwopointo
      1 y

      then she prob wants sex

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    • Anonymous
      Opinion Owner
      1 y

      I think she had some confidence issues and me calling her hot made her feel good.

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    • chocolatetwopointo
      chocolatetwopointo
      1 y

      why?

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    • Anonymous
      Opinion Owner
      1 y

      I guess she liked the idea of me thinking she's got movie star good looks.

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    • chocolatetwopointo
      chocolatetwopointo
      1 y

      why couldnt she do that on her own?

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    • Anonymous
      Opinion Owner
      1 y

      She had a hard time getting dates because she's extremely tall.

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    • chocolatetwopointo
      chocolatetwopointo
      1 y

      how tall?

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    • Anonymous
      Opinion Owner
      1 y

      6'5.

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    • chocolatetwopointo
      chocolatetwopointo
      1 y

      ah okay

      Reply
    • Anonymous
      Opinion Owner
      1 y

      I'm 5'6.

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  • AviatorTom
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    Master Age: 59
    1 y
    1.6K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

    What words would you prefer?

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    • chocolatetwopointo
      chocolatetwopointo
      1 y

      none.

      Reply
  • DrPepper12
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    840 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

    We're open to suggestions...

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    • chocolatetwopointo
      chocolatetwopointo
      1 y

      wdym?

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    • DrPepper12
      DrPepper12
      1 y

      What should adjectives should people use?

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    • chocolatetwopointo
      chocolatetwopointo
      1 y

      depends how well yk them, in this case im talking ab men saying hot and sexy at strangers. so id say, ”pretty” ”beautiful” pretty simple, no?

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  • beefcakebradybatson
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    584 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

    'CAUSE I'm cover boy handsome at age 71 !!!

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  • pongo
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    1 y

    For the same reason women say, "cute". Who knows.

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    • chocolatetwopointo
      chocolatetwopointo
      1 y

      do u mean as when women call men cute?

      Reply
    • pongo
      pongo
      1 y

      It's just a preference, I think. I will never call anything cute unless it's a puppy or baby or something actually cute. Hot and sexy are not puppies. They aren't babies. They aren't old people. Those things are cute. Women say a "hot guy". Is cute. Dresses and shoes are cute.

      Know what I mean? I have never understood it, personally.

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  • ehatsham_hussain
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    It's a mindset.

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    • chocolatetwopointo
      chocolatetwopointo
      1 y

      wdym?

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    • ehatsham_hussain
      ehatsham_hussain
      1 y

      I mean they think it will please a woman to say such words.

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    • chocolatetwopointo
      chocolatetwopointo
      1 y

      why do they think that?

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    • ehatsham_hussain
      ehatsham_hussain
      1 y

      Because some women really like to hear it ,, they take it as compliment.

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    • chocolatetwopointo
      chocolatetwopointo
      1 y

      no women like hearing that.

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    • ehatsham_hussain
      ehatsham_hussain
      1 y

      It's depends in context, not random women like to hear , but a wife would like to hear such words by her husband.
      She find it in romantic way.

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    • chocolatetwopointo
      chocolatetwopointo
      1 y

      doubtful

      Reply
    • Crimsyjo
      Crimsyjo
      1 y

      You can't say no women like it. I do and I'm certain lots of women do. Internet is full of women posting pics to get "your hot" "your sexy" comments. It's like literally all women on Instagram do (so I hear lol).
      I personally don't mind it tho I prefer an actual sentence like "I think your so sexy". And words like " my love" and baby too are even better.

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    • chocolatetwopointo
      chocolatetwopointo
      1 y

      so attention seekers and pornstars like it? got it.

      Reply
  • UnwantedScorpio
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    Cause it foes

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  • Kingofkings1992
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    385 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

    Lmao

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