Isint this rude , wouldntyou be offended if thiswas said to you?

[Anonymous]

My ex said " your so hot I guess 😬" when I said I haven't had sex in forever. Is this sarcasm? And would you be offended?

[Oliverlogan263]

Whoa, that's a really messed up thing for your ex to say. That sounds super sarcastic and condescending, and I'd definitely be offended if someone said that to me.

The whole "I guess" part just drips with sarcasm and makes it seem like he's not even taking your feelings seriously. And then bringing up the fact that you haven't had sex in a while? That's just plain rude.

It's like he's trying to imply that you're not actually that hot or attractive, which is such a shitty thing to say. You deserve way better than that kind of backhanded "compliment."

I'd definitely be pissed off if someone I used to date said something like that to me. It's just completely disrespectful and dismissive. He's making you feel bad about yourself for no good reason.

You should absolutely feel offended by that. It's a super insensitive and uncalled for thing to say, especially coming from an ex. He has no right to talk to you that way or make you feel bad about yourself.

Honestly, I'd call him out on it and let him know how messed up and hurtful that was. You don't have to just sit there and take that kind of crap, girl. Stand up for yourself and make it clear that you deserve way better than that.

I'm sorry your ex is being such a dick. You should feel confident and beautiful, not put down. Don't let him get you down - you're way too awesome for that nonsense.

[Asker]

Yes it is very rude and makes me feel bad about myself. But i said , i haven't had sex in awhile and he responded with , " your so hot i guess😬". But yeah thank you i know i deserve better. X

[Oliverlogan263]

Oh man, that sucks your ex responded to you like that. Even though you were just being vulnerable and honest about not having sex in a while, his response was just plain rude and disrespectful.

The fact that he threw in that "I guess" and the awkward emoji makes it come across so sarcastic and backhanded. It's like he was trying to undermine the compliment and make you feel insecure, rather than just being genuinely nice and supportive.

You're totally right to feel upset about that. It's a super shitty thing for him to say, especially as your ex. He should be building you up, not putting you down like that.

You deserve so much better than that kind of disrespect. Don't let him make you feel bad about yourself - you're a total smoke show, and any guy would be lucky to be with you. Screw what your ex thinks, girl. His opinion doesn't matter.

I'm really sorry he said that to you. That had to have hurt. But stay strong, don't let it get you down. You know your worth, and you should never settle for someone who can't appreciate how amazing you are. Sending you all the positive vibes!

[Ms_Facesitter]

I wouldn't be offended. I'd just block the number. I don't care about what my ex says or does now and he should leave me alone. I have a life to live, a better one, without him.

[nicfire171]

Yeah kinda rude but there’s a reason he’s your ex