If most single mothers have similar negative experiences with guys that they had children with, wouldn't that imply that guys are the problem?

[Anonymous]

[OneViewpoint]

No, nice try at absolving yourself of accountability for your bad life choices but...

More likely the dumb women who make bad life choices are allowing themselves to get knocked up by losers who leave them after they get pregnant. Then they go right back to same pattern of bad decisions after they become a single mother as they allow loser after loser to pump and dump in their pussy.

So it's women who make bad choices finding guys who make bad choices. There's plenty of blame to go around.

[Anonymous]

Not always. A lot of women just breakup w a man cause they think they can do better. There’s so many women on YouTube who regretted breaking up w a man who was good to them, took care of them, etc, etc. But at the same time I’m not dismissing the men either who do screw things up. It goes both ways. There numerous women who have numerous kids w many men just as there are men who have numerous kids w different women. Why wouldn’t it be her fault if she’s constantly picking men like that? Just the same as him constantly picking women who aren’t mother material. They both have issues.

[Anonymous]

You are correct, but not all guys are like that

[Asker]

If a guy was a fake "nice guy" would you think he will be a deadbeat father?

[Opinion Owner]

Probably. Hard to tell though. Those guys don’t tend to get laid much (except the really charming ones).

[Summeroflove]

That is a very case by case basis sometimes both parents are the issue… Especially people who are sleeping around not wanting any of the consequences until it happens someone gets knocked up or knocks someone up.

But all situations are different some cases it’s the mom, sometimes the dad, but more often then not they are equally as irresponsible.

[Anonymous]

No, it implies that most women make lousy choices when it comes to who they have sex with.

[Asker]

How is that?

[MasterKS]

Yes its possible but all depends upon individual.