If I have 1 child is it harder to find a good guy?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

It could. Just cause men avoid you like someone mentioned doesn’t mean they’re bad. It just means they have a preference. It’s a lot to ask someone to take you on a your child. A lot of women say they’re not looking for a father for their kid, but in reality you sort of do become that child’s father, especially if they’re much younger. Because in reality you’d expect him to proceed not only you but your kid as well if need be. You’d expect him to bring food for you as well as your child if he shows up at your place one day. Chances are he may even miss work, especially if you have something really important to do when the child is sick. It’s much easier to go out together, random trips, etc, w out having a child. Plus he may have to deal w your baby’s daddy. It’s not impossible to met someone, just makes it harder.

[Summeroflove]

This is a case by case basis. Some men aren’t ready so they aren’t all judging you by not wanting to be with you so keep that in mind. All single parents situations are different though. Some are narcissistic hoes whose children I feel terrible for as where others are in different situations. Coming out of divorces (that aren’t their fault), widowed, raped, or maybe made some poor choices but has grown up. Is being responsible doing the best for their kids.

[alice55]

It's easier because all the bad one will avoid you

[Ariesman81]

And by bad, I suspect you mean smart.

[alice55]

@Ariesman81 I mean those who have standard and are generally annoying. If having a child don't disturb the guy then he's most likely pretty open minded in everything so he's not gonna bother her

[jahaims]

No one wants to fix your messes except for desperate guys

[Anonymous]

Yes. Especially in your age group.

[Asker]

Why is it harder at my age. I'm only 27

[Opinion Owner]

Young people are more likely to want somebody without all the extra responsibility.

[guyinterested]

possibly, but many guys will date single parents.

[MasterKS]

For sex? enough for relationship its tough.