Is intense eye contact with a guy for 5 months meaningful for him?

[Anonymous]

it’s quite a long time to make prolonged eye contact with a girl, what do you mean to him?

[SteveSmith1985]

I think it's a ridiculously long time. It means to him the same thing it means to you. So what's the hold-up? It's been 5 months. Maybe it's time to move things along. Otherwise it'll be another few years before you actually go on a date.

🙂

[Asker]

Thanks, yes I really like him,, but I think we are both a bioth shy. We also work together and have mutual friends, so it’s a bit tricky,

[SteveSmith1985]

hahaha, yes you're clearly both shy. Mutual friends and working together don't really make it tricky. I'm suggesting 10 seconds of bravery. You can do that. 10 seconds? Just say hi and add one more thing to the 'hi'. It can be your name. It can be a question "how was your weekend" "did you finish your report already?" "How about that local sports team" anything at all.

He wants to talk to you. You want to talk to him. You've been making eye contact intensely for 5 months. How much longer are you going to wait? 10 seconds. Be brave for 10 seconds and say Hi, and one additional thing. He wants you to. Seriously, if not now, when? In another month? Or next Christmas? Time to grab destiny by the balls... and say hello to a guy who wants you to. 🙂

[Asker]

Aw thanks, yes I lve got to do it, just be brave haha, thank you, I will do it tomorrow

[SteveSmith1985]

That's awesome. You should! I hope you do. Let me know how it goes. (It'll go great. Don't worry). Just remember. It's only 10 seconds. Good luck 🙂

[Asker]

Grea thanks will do. Do you know he must really like me to do this for so long?

[Plugs]

Why do u really like them?

[SteveSmith1985]

I think its safe to say he likes you. Otherwise he would think it was weird that you had been making meaningful eye contact for so long. But he doesn't. He's making meaningful eye contact back. He definitely likes you.

[Asker]

Aw thanks for your advice, good to know

[Asker]

@Plugs @Plugs I can’t really describe it, but we have a pretty intense chemistry not like I’ve ever experienced before, it’s like a magnetic pull towards him. I think he feels similar.

[Shiprex]

If he's been staring for 5 months that's about time to think he may be dead and no longer able to help himself.

If you mean he hasn't spoken to you then why not speak to him.

If you mean you're in a relationship or heading that way then eye contact is one way to help communicate and show interest

[Asker]

We are not in a relationship together, we are coworkers. We talk about work really, but he regularly looks at me like he wants more. I don’t know you can just tell.

[Shiprex]

Maybe it's just his way of communicating. Does he do the same with others?
Why don't you ask him? You "feel it" but want to know it. It's your thing to find out.

[Asker]

Hi, I haven’t noticed him do that with others no. He definitely seems to look for me and recently locks eyes without turning away, whereas before he was turning away. I have messaged him to see if he’ll meet with me to talk about it. Hopefully I’ll hear back soon.

[Shiprex]

Good luck if that's what you're after. I don't think you should dwell too much on the "staring" that might come across as weird. If you're interested say so.

[Shiprex]

Thanks for the MHO

[SeriouslyNotSerious]

I need to be honest. There's no move then there's nothing. That's a long time to be waiting for someone to make a move. 😬

If you really like him, approach him. Take a risk.

[Asker]

Yes I think we are both a bit shy

[Screenwriter]

Five months? What are you two waiting for? Five weeks is too long. Get on with it, or forget it.

[seeyounexttuesday]

are you retardeD? You stared at a guy for 5 months and nothing happened?

[Asker]

lol thanks, well it’s a bit tricky as we work together.

[seeyounexttuesday]

Don’t shit where you eat.

[Anonymous]

To me, it would be.

[Asker]

What would it mean to you? How would your make you feel?

[Opinion Owner]

I have learned that if I can't stop myself from looking at a girl, I have serious feelings for. When it happens I would sometimes get a weird sensation like butterflies in my stomach.

[CopperSD]

Any eye contact is meaningfu

[Asker]

How do you mean? What’s he thinking though?

[spartan55]

It means he likes looking at you.

[Anonymous]

How are u both acquainted

[Asker]

Through mutual friends

[Asker]

We also work together

[In_Trance]

Means absolutely nothing