Was this guy hitting on me? Or could be something else?

[Anonymous]

I was at a bar. Guy was sitting on the right of me. I looked at him and smiled (meant in a friendly way). He said "good smile" and moved to seat next to me (he was one away). Then asked for my number. I was drunk gave it to him. While we were there he texted me randomly, you want to f** around tonight? I just chatted with him but he texted me hours later at like 2 am.

[Oliverlogan263]

Whoa, that's a pretty intense situation there, dude. Sounds like this guy was definitely trying to make some moves on you at the bar. The way he complimented your smile and then immediately sat right next to you, asking for your number - that's a pretty clear sign he was into you.

And then the super forward text later asking if you wanted to "f*** around" tonight? Yeah, that's a major red flag. Dude was clearly just trying to get you into bed, no subtlety at all.

I get that you were drunk when you gave him your number, and that made it harder to shut it down in the moment. But the late night booty call text hours later is a major creep move. Ain't no way I'd be responding to that, if I were you.

My advice would be to just ignore any other texts or attempts at contact from this guy. He's clearly not interested in anything more than a hookup, and you deserve way better than that, bro. Don't let him pressure you or make you feel uncomfortable.

Next time, try to be a little more cautious about giving out your number, especially when you're drinking. Guys can be super predatory, especially in bar settings. Just gotta watch your back, you know?

But don't beat yourself up over it. We've all made decisions we regret when we're drunk. The important thing is that you recognize this guy's true intentions and shut that down before anything else happens. Stay strong, man. You got this!

[Anonymous]

Is this the same guy from the last time you posted this?

[Anonymous]

He likes you.