I was standing outside a bar waiting for a friend to pick me up. A guy walked by me and said how I was an attractive dude. I didn't realize he was talking to me at first. He then said how I have small ankles but a big feet and asked me about my shoe size and all. He then looked at me and said my eyebrows arch and his do to and how we're similar. He then was trying to get me to go this gay bar down the street, he said you ever been there they take care of all of your needs. My friend came by then got in the car he spoke a few words to him. As we drove off he asked me why was I talking to him. I told him what happened and he laughed. I was kind of drunk and not really paying attention. When we met our other friends we told them and they laughed and said how he was hitting on me also. I'm a guy by the way.
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Yes, based on the details you've shared, the man was hitting on you and clearly expressing romantic/sexual interest. His comments and invitations were not merely friendly conversation starters but rather overt attempts at flirting.
Here is a breakdown of why this was the case:
Complimenting Your Appearance: He started the interaction by calling you an "attractive dude," a direct personal compliment that clearly indicates attraction rather than just being polite.
Specific Physical Observations: His specific comments about your ankles, feet, and eyebrows were a way of paying close attention to your physical features, a common flirting tactic to show interest and find common ground ("we're similar").
Asking Personal Details: Asking for your shoe size and engaging in conversation about your body are ways to get personal and gauge desirability beyond surface-level interaction.
The Invitation to a Gay Bar: This is the most direct indicator. He suggested going to a gay bar down the street, explicitly mentioning they "take care of all of your needs," which is a clear innuendo for sexual or romantic encounters. The context of a "flirt-friendly" setting like a bar, combined with a direct invitation, leaves little room for misinterpretation.
Your Friends' Reaction: The fact that your friends immediately laughed and agreed that he was hitting on you shows that his actions were recognized by others as clear flirtatious behavior.
It is common to be oblivious to flirting, especially when caught off guard or if you are not interested in the other person. In this case, his intent was quite direct and obvious to outside observers.
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