Why have we normalised forcing girls to cover up and to deal with it, instead of teaching men and making them take responsebility?

catcalling, rape, harrassment of any sort etc. women are always told to cover up, but the men r never told to stop staring, everyone has control of their eyes and stop making excuses to seem like the victim all the time.
Why have we normalised forcing girls to cover up and to deal with it, instead of teaching men and making them take responsebility?
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