Honestly. I was never catcalled by men. Was literally catcalled by like two boy classmates from school. I don’t even remember what they said. Was so long ago. But we knew each other and hung out a couple times and I had seen them in an after school facility. I was passing by with my family walking up ahead. Then they called my name. I went over and then we talked a bit, then as I was leaving they said I don't know something like “she knows she’s bad” or “she knows what she’s doing.” Maybe a “look how she shakes it.”
and we literally all were laughing and I looked back and smiled and walked more upright 🤣 and then after that we all never spoke of it again lol. Just usual school work.
We weren’t even teens. These were like two little 8 year old boys and myself also 8 😆. I just think it’s so funny to this day, but was cool experience. I knew them and we got along well where it wasn’t like disrespect and they were honestly genuinely complimenting me and joking around so 🤷♀️ 😂. Wasn’t offended.
If anyone else is probably be highly annoyed lol. One time experience. Don’t endorse it. 😂
Also it was funny for me also cause for some ODD reason that facility had like these gates on windows for safety or so. But they looked like they were talking to me from a cage so I was free they weren’t 😂. They had to stay in after school place, while I was walking with family in a fun errand. They could say I was an elephant and I’d still be laughing at them lol luckily was all innocent. It was innocentttt. Silly kids 😂
Being catcalled is more than just an unpleasant nuisance to me.
It is a dishonor, a reminder that we women are actually worth less than a dog, a bug or a piece of s**t.
Men that catcall actually like dogs more than they like women because they don't objectify dogs, they respect them for the most part.
Women are simply object that you can dispose of once you have (mis) used them, once you have taken their dignity and self-esteem away. You soil them, rape them and if it is not enough, you dispose of their bodies like you would dispose of trash.
That is how I feel when I am confronted with those sub-human perverts.
You're being inconsistent. Nobody wants a bug nor a piece of sh! t. So why would you assume you're "worth less" than things people actively want to be rid of?
Let me start off by saying you shouldn’t be catcalling someone even if someone out there likes it… That doesn’t mean everyone does. It depends on the woman, the way the dude went about it, what he said, the man, and if she’s taken. Some people are in relationships and frankly some people aren’t attracted to you.
I think even most men would be lying if they said a beautiful verses ugly woman catcalled him he would react differently. But at the same time if you really wanna talk to someone. Just go be a adult and have a conversation. If someone ignores you or shuts you down leave that person alone. People out minding their own business aren’t obligated to talk to you. Same for women who just demand a man comes and talks to her
When I was 14 I would walk home from school Many senior girls would think it’s funny to cat call me I was a “cute kid” all things considered but it was weird. I knew they didn’t mean it or that I had a shot
As an adult it obviously doesn’t happen anymore although there were some instances
especially at parties
Now I know how to make lemonade from the lemon at least so I do enjoy it
By one boy. Of my whole life... one. That was cute of him but no other folks do the catcalling thing. Sooo kinda indifferent, due to people don't catcall me.
To me there are some different categories of it that I feel different about. For one thing it happened sometimes in school settings or school parties, or extended friend or acquaintance settings when I did not take it v seriously and did not feel unsafe, and in those settings I mostly saw it as embarrassing or annoying, but one time it was funny bc of how he did it.
Then the next category is Italy, which if you have not spent much time in Italy, I do not know why but catcalling is super common there compared with anywhere else I have been, I was there for about a month in a college program and I got catcalled most days, which scared me and I hated at first, but I got used to it and started taking more like a compliment that might have had good intentions and just wasn’t done the way I would prefer.
And the last category is, in the U. S. it pretty much only happens (other than school or party type settings) in bad areas, I do not go to bad areas alone, so I have only had this type of situation one time and it was scary and gross.
Overall no I do not like it, but there are special cases I guess that can be funny or flattering. JMO!
Ya know, in my entire life, I've never seen a group of guys catcall a woman. And I've never seen a group of women catcall a guy. Maybe I just hang out with the right people.
I think if a guy was being cat called he'd find it funny and brush it off as a joke or a group of women partying a little too hard.
But I can see where a woman would feel threatened, disrespected, and angry. History says that's a rational response.
Yes , especially from a group of cute girls’ , from my experiences and things I witnessed , guys’ don’t mind being catcalled but girls’ on the other hand is a50/50 chance on whether she does or doesn’t. Some girls’ look at it like it’s creepy unless she is attracted to the guy that is catcalling her lol
Neither here nor there. I can’t control other people’s behavior, so i don’t dwell on it. There was one time they got me good though. I was out running alongside a road. I heard a woman screaming something from a car as it rushed past. It was something ridiculous like, “Shake it, daddy!”. I don’t recall exactly. But i started laughing, which disrupted my breathing and put an end to that run for a bit. Could have been worse. Could have been better.
Girls love that shit their attention whores. Come on do you really think that they wear revealing clothes so that their girlfriends can complement them? I don’t think so. So cat calling a female is doing exactly what they like to have done and if none of them agree, they’re fucking liars. Me’ow😽 here Kitty kitty.
Usually I just don't care, but the problem with catcalling is it's scary. Usually they'll start walking after you, especially if you're alone it can be really scary. Or when you don't respond it quickly escalates to "WHAT IM NOT GOOD ENOUGH FOR YOU?" Or "HEY MISSY, YOU GOT EARS? IM TALKING TO YOU."
And they usually start chasing. That's the scary part.
I’m a dude, so it’s a different dynamic with no aspect of physical threat. But yes, I’m still chasing the high from the handful of times it’s happened to me😝
I fucking love it. Makes my year. Im homophobic and a gay guy said I had a great ass. I bought him drinks and flirted with him all night. Gave him blue balls too. He knew I was straight.
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