When a nice guy tells a girl, "I love you and I will do anything you ask, does he mean it?

[Kelley1]

Nice Guy

Imagine this scenario: A nice guy telling a pretty girl, "I love you."

Girl: Do you really love me?

Nice guy: Yes, I love you.

Girl: Do you love me enough to do do anything I ask?

Nice guy: Yes, I will do anything you ask.

Girl: Is that a promise?

Nice guy: Absolutely, I will anything you ask.

Girl: Stay away from me and don't contact me again.

[Jennz6]

Guys say that all of the time

[Jennz6]

@Kelley1
Thank you for the MHO

[Kelly6]

@Kelley1 Probably yes

[Kelley1]

When she says, "Go away and don't come back," what will he do?

[Static_In_The_Attic]

Honestly he’s probably full of $hit if he says something like that & he’s probably faking it until he makes it & secretly wants panties to drop. On the flip side I’m sure he will do anything you want & as for the love part it’s probably lust for starters.

[Finchie40]

Just means he is desperate for her love , some people say stupid things when they are head over heels for someone , Both Guys’ and Girls’ can do this to each other , happens a lot to be honest with you , So it’s up to that individual on whether they want to hold this person accountable for what they said to them. I have witnessed girls’ breaking up with their boyfriends’ because he promised her things that he never came through for , that he just told her to get her interested in him. , Why people shouldn’t lie and think before they speak. If I tell a girl I love her, I do mean it , but I make it clear to her only if she chooses me the same way I choose her because if she doesn’t choose me the same way then I might still Love you but you won't be my partner. One thing I learned in relationships is that you can love someone even if you are no longer with that someone. Why I no longer rush into relationships with girls’ until her and I see the big picture before even speaking about commitment, because once I am committed I am committed

[Summeroflove]

The issue with “nice” guys is that they’re trying too hard to be nice and all in time show their true colors. Many of these men feel entitled to sex if they do certain things instead of wanting to form a genuine connection. You can tell the difference between someone whose genuinely nice and kind verses someone being somebody that they’re not.

Now obviously if someone says they will do anything there it’s mostly within reason asking someone to go hide a body for you or sit there and watch them get railed by someone else maybe ain’t reasonable. But if it’s too early on I would be very aware that someone’s just pretending to be someone they’re not and genuine interest maybe isn’t there.

I think desperation for sex is very unattractive. It goes for both sexes really for anyone who has self respect. Unfortunately some people fall for it enough times that they learn their lesson.

[Genie23]

Most people be it guys or girls to make someone like them or forgive them, so many guys (not all. Good guys do exist ) will say anything they can to make sure a girl starts trusting him just so he could sleep with her. What I mean to say is- don't trust words. Observe his actions. His behaviour, how he treats you, whether he does things he says, etc.

Trust his actions, not words and if his actions leaves a positive impression, trust him. If it doesn't, better not to trust and stay away from him.

[Screenwriter]

In the throes of love/lust, men will say ANYTHING to achieve their goals (possession of the love object).

But anyone who says they'll do ANYTHING someone asks is a fool. How do you know that what a person will ask is doable? Rational? Reasonable?

That guy needs his head examined to put himself in the hands of someone else. That's a recipe for being used, and likely, disaster.

When someone has genuine love for another person more reasonable offers are love, emotional support and companionship (sex is included in the love section).

Doing anything someone asks sounds like they want to be a love-slave. Not healthy at all.

[slatyb]

What do you mean by a "nice guy" ? Does he mean it? Maybe. Maybe not. It's a red flag in dating. He's promising too much to a person he doesn't really know.

[Kelley1]

A nice guy is an average-looking guy who is not attractive to women. Therefore, he must invest a significant amount of time, money, and effort to have a relationship.

[slatyb]

And why is he not attractive? Average-looking people can become attractive to women if they get to know them.

[Kelley1]

This is an average nice guy, and he is never attractive except to old women and fat girls.

[Gaylordslav]

I suppose im a nice guy, a gay unlikeable nice guy

[Kelley1]

@Gaylordslav Almost half of the men, more or less, are nice guys who girls are not attracted to.

[slatyb]

The person you described is not a nice guy, he's immature, socially awkward, and too insecure to consider changing his approach. And mostly they are not all that bright. Truly nice guys get noticed, and they get dates.

[OlderAndWiser]

Obviously, the girl is not a nice girl, and she has done the guy a huge favor by saving him from the pain of a relationship with her.

[Gaylordslav]

pretty girls dont date guys that aren't handsome wealthy and or of status.

[OlderAndWiser]

@Gaylordslav Because they are all shallow and not nice?

[Kelley1]

@OlderAndWiser No! It is because we want who we want, just men want pretty girls instead of fat girls.

[OlderAndWiser]

What men want is related to physical attraction and much of that is imprinted in us at birth; we don't decide what is attractive to us. Some women decide to go for men who have money because they want to be pampered and spoiled; that is not based on any innate sense of attraction, is it?

[Kelley1]

@OlderAndWiser It is in our DNA to seek security. Both men and women are selfish; women a bit more so.

[Gaylordslav]

Llike you? Lol you're not pretty you're average

[OlderAndWiser]

I will disagree with the other poster. I think you are an attractive young lady.

[Kelley1]

@OlderAndWiser Thank you.

[FreyaRed]

Generally people mean a lot of thing affected with particular emotion in specific moment. Even if this emotion is positive and they promise you a star from heaven, it's just temporarily and when their rational mind kicks in are all those promises immaterial.

[Shy_Steve]

If he is really a nice Guy and he said that then he obviously means it then doesn't he?

The problem is you Girls don't know if he is a nice Guy or not, Because a lot of Confident Guys pretend to be nice to get Sex so you really need to talk to other people who knows him and see if he is really nice.

Just because he is Confident and nice to you doesn't automatically make him nice.

[Iron_Man]

I probably think that most guys tell woman what they wanna hear so they can get sex especially when new info the relationship but that’s not my style never has been what you see is what you get what you hear is what you get from me

[katiesmuff]

Well anything is a very large range for anybody to really agree to do. If it is reasonable likely yes he means it, but if for instance your asking him to commit a felony such as murder etc my guess is no he is not going to do that.

[AngryCarl2]

That's maximum simping. If you say that to a woman you're going to get what you deserve. And it won't be pretty.

Unless you're one of those weirdos who gets off on being abused.

[Geo1970]

Not necessarily.
I’m not saying that all men are guilty of it, but certainly a substantial amount might be more interested in their financial status.


But this is also a situation that could happen, vice versa.

[glennos89]

If a woman would say that last sentence to me you can be sure that she would never see or hear from me ever again. I dont want to chase or play games, I rather move on looking for someone serious

[MrChinaski]

Honestly? I don't know your circumstances, but relationships work when people have strong lives outside the relationship.

[sawno]

I don't think a self respecting guy would agree to everything you ask.

[beefcakebradybatson]

It means,"I'm after your body, babe !!!"

[Bklynbadboy12]

That all depends on the guy some do mean it and some are just lying to get what he wants

[JohnnyB123321]

That’s going to depend on the guy. I’d mean it if I said it.

[Jeff51]

I bet for awhile he does.

[msc545]

No, it means he is an idiot.

[nawtee_me]

Ask him

for something and see….

[dustybiker2]

Desperation

[HelpfulGirlll]

Usually not

[dudeinohio]

Anything within reason.

[Gaylordslav]

Whats a nice guy?

[eagle1951]

probably does