Why am I attracted to this man when he doesn’t come off assertive or masculine?

[Anonymous]

It’s something about him that I like… he did get on a student for his behavior and it was attractive. He’s skinny and a bit nerdy but I still think he’s attractive… but I just don’t find him assertive… maybe self conscious. I don't know maybe he’s still finding himself… maybe his mom still hovers I don't know

[Avcfhcic]

I don't know but I'm in a similar situation where I'm attracted to a girl that is far from what I would describe as my ideal woman.
I think it's due to loneliness or the desire of wanting to be with someone that your heart latches onto someone even if it isn't your idea of a dream man.

[Asker]

I don’t even think he likes me

[Avcfhcic]

'think'. You don't know if he does or doesn't. But you could find out if you talked to him.
Clarity might help you!

[HollyK21]

So did you get a new job Chels? Found a new man to obsess over and stalk? What happened to the other one? Did he sue you yet?

[Asker]

Yes. New job and new man. Nope he didn’t sue… he’s an immigrant

[Wuai201]

Well dang you clocked her in anonymous mode 😳

[HollyK21]

We have a very long history lol

[Asker]

🤣🤣

[ᴍᴀʀʀɪᴇᴅɪsʟᴀᴍɪᴡᴏʀsʜɪᴘ]

A person becomes shy around the one they love.

[Asker]

What do you mean

[ᴍᴀʀʀɪᴇᴅɪsʟᴀᴍɪᴡᴏʀsʜɪᴘ]

You love.

[Asker]

I’m not shy but uh okay

[ᴍᴀʀʀɪᴇᴅɪsʟᴀᴍɪᴡᴏʀsʜɪᴘ]

Hm peki

[MasterKS]

its your inner choice how could we answer it?