What does it mean when a guy asks on a scale of 1 to 10, how much do you think I love you?

[Simslover92]

This has been bugging me since he asked it.

I know it's over but this question caught me off guard.

It made me think can you truly just sleep with an ex and it just be that and nothing else or will feelings always come creeping back up?

[ohsheeT]

Well here's the thing about breaking up .. and getting back or just having sex. First of all he's going to make it sound like he's the good guy trying to help you get threw all of it

And he's just using you

You break up or he breaks up with you for what ever reasons

Next thing you know he has a girlfriend that was quick

Did he break up because he meant her

He knows your having a hard time so he see you here and there might get some lunch. Then some how you end up In Bed. And then again
So if he broke up to get with this other girl. It's shows what type of guy he is.

But now proving even more what type of guy he is because now he's cheating on her. . So that means the whole thing is manipulation

Because he knows he can get away with doing both. He know the words to use he know he can get you anytime he wants because he knows your weak and still like him

But what ever the break up reason. It was bull shit. And now he will take it further. To get what he wants. Telling you anything like ok we can do it one time but it's wrong as if he's the good guy trying to help you get through the break up. And it's all a lie manipulation


The hole thing is he's got you both where he wants you

He's never coming back

An ex that really loves you would be with you

And an ex that says he loves you. Would not have sex with you to help you that is that last way in the world that will help you.

[ohsheeT]

It's kinda like a boyfriend that doesn't want to wear a condom. He tell you he love you and it will be ok

But a guy that loves you will protect. You at all times. That's not love or real love becayse he knows it's a 50 /50 chance he can get you pregnant

You say o k bixby you know you're pregnant and the next thing you know he's gone that's not love

[Still-alive]

If this is your ex even if he meant it i really wouldn't take it seriously. he's probably still just struggling to completely get over it. Were you to get back together again any of the problems that led to the break up to begin with would still be present and may very well likely lead to another break up and even more heart ache so...

With that said "how much do you think I love you" almost sounds like he's being flirty and in my opinion it doesn't sound that serious to me.

[Simslover92]

Oh ok thank you.

[sage2021]

I honestly don't know how you can have sex that you have absolutely NO love feelings for. He's probably assuming that you still have love in your heart for him,, otherwise you wouldn't be having sex with him. Thus, he asked you that question.

Go ahead and tell him like you tell us, ZERO and see his reaction.

What did you tell him to answer his question?


Either you aren't being honest with yourself, him, or us - because it wasn't long ago that you said you still love him.

[Simslover92]

I said 5. I don't think he loves me anymore except on a friendship level which is why I gave the 5 rating. I am over him for the most part and I know he's over me. He's moved on. It's just purely sex between us and a friendship.

[MemeSupreme]

weird question

[MemeSupreme]

what even led to him asking that lol

[Simslover92]

I have no idea lol

[HawkPerception]

Lmao I can't believe you didn't see this coming. I didn't want to say in your previous post, but almost every time there's always one who has feelings for the other when there's sex. It's an extremely intimate thing. It's literally the most intimate act one can do with someone else.

How that doesn't click for some people is beyond me. It's kind of like saying dance isn't intimate when you're holding your dancing partner intimately and pressing against their body in various ways, even sometimes the dude grinding on the girl's butt.

I don't trust anyone who says dance isn't intimate, just as I call people out on their bs of having sex without any feelings

[Georgia001]

He might be asking that question to seek validation or test your feelings. Even if the relationship is over, such questions often reveal unresolved emotions. It's common to linger in a relationship after a breakup, but the key is whether you want him to continue to influence your emotions.

[jazzy34]

If I'm honest, that's weird, lol. Seriously, though. I don't understand that. I love big or not at all. There's no in between.

[Simslover92]

It is indeed lol

[nawtee_me]

What was your answer? I am sure he asked you how much you thought he loved you to say that is actually how much you still love him. Sort of that reverse kind of role. That you would hope he loves you as much as you love him and that would be the number you would say….

[Bklynbadboy12]

It doesn't mean anything. He's just asking a question that's designed to keep you on the hook. You know its not love cause if it was he'd be with you. Let me make something clear to you. When a man wants to be with a woman he won't let anything stop him from being with that person

[bowenw]

It sounds to me like he wants to get back together with you.

[Simslover92]

That's what I felt as well but he's in a complicated situation so I know he's probably torn and probably wants to deep down but can't because of the mess he's got himself into.

[KittygosMeoWW]

I feel like that’s a narcissistic trap to reel you back in and create a fake sense of emotional attachment to stroke his ego.

[Simslover92]

I think so too.

[Nikki1989]

It means the lights are on, but nobody is home with the dude.

[Shiprex]

When something happens it's possible feelings may be rekindled but there's a chance there will be a breaking up message present.

[Xawyx-2]

Maybe he wants to restore your relationship.

[MannMitAntworten]

It means.. bullshit. This motherfucker