Guy's Behavior

Ladies? Do most of you know why sometimes we hesitate to approach you?

well , most of you assume shyness, low confidence, anxiety, etc, anyway my experience last 18 months was a bit different, I used to see a woman near the area where I live , and she was into me but didn't approach, she seemed like to type of women who is a lot into make up and fashion and high maintenance, at some point I was thinking about stepping up and talk and she was eagerly waiting for that but at the last second I hesitated, why? Let me explain, well at that time I wasn't really financially well , I was working with a relatively narrower salary, so I said depending on her style she seems like she's gonna cost me a lot than I afford , she would expect me to take her to some nice restaurants and buying her some stuff although I know that some women don't really expect that much , so I was just thinking about having some hangouts and so drinks and so couple times a month but I thought that just going to be just a waste of time , I don't really try to objectify some women and say if we don't afford we better don't approach but it's just some of us don't approach because of the expectations , sometimes we expect different things than the other and that why some relationships fail to start , and for me currently I'm focusing on other things instead of getting into a relationship, not because I'm ready or I will be bad at it , I'm really certain that I will be a great partner but I'm just delaying it until I finish some other stuff.

Ladies? Do most of you know why sometimes we hesitate to approach you?
Ladies? Do most of you know why sometimes we hesitate to approach you?
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