Why does it have to be men to initiate?

[Anonymous]

I’m curious what you guys think I personally think it’s a biological plus safety reason on the women’s end biological beacsue her hormones might not be in the right place at the right time for her want to chase. And safety beacsue it’s ingrained in women to be thinking about her safety and men being the predator even though women want men there’s still the protective side to it. Let me know what you guys think

[Chazmatazz269]

Women had their liberation movement. Men have not. We are still bound by traditional gender roles and stereotypes in every facet of life. Men will not have a liberation movement because the vast majority of people still believe the myth that men are intrinsically more privileged than women. Therefore men should carry more responsibility and accountability than women. It’s not true, of course. But what is true doesn’t matter as much as perception. Until people decide to acknowledge the truth, nothing will change.

[Summeroflove]

It depends on the person and a lot of women do initiate more subtly but some women are more overt. Women who sit around waiting…. Tend to snooze and loose just like men who sit around. I mean sure, it’s a gamble it can pay off sometimes. But not always…

These women become angry. Why? Well they may be approached but not generally by the men they want or men that are attractive but want sex. Once in a while a guy she likes may initiate whose genuine. But especially strangers… at the end of the day. Either desperate men who probably aren’t that attractive or men wanting easy consequence free sex.

Women who sit around have to understand that the men they like… Other women do too. Especially if you don’t know him well…. Many times they will go for someone they personally know over a stranger. At the same time they get attention from women both subtly and overtly. Meaning… They don’t have to desperately ask out random women they don’t know.

[Chazmatazz269]

You consider 14% “a lot”? 😂😂😂
The largest poll of its kind showed that less than 15% of women have ever made the first move and a negligible percentage of respondents indicated that they practiced it as the norm.
The use of the word “subtle” is just code for playing games. Especially in a society that perpetuates the myth that women are “better communicators” than men.

[Summeroflove]

@Chazmatazz269 and those women are missing out. It’s not just women making moves…. A lot of the top tier men they want. Also…. Tend to have access to a lot of women around them.

[Summeroflove]

@Chazmatazz269 a lot of women also open doors. By being around dudes. Starting conversations. Etc.

Which can be seen as making. A move

[Nikki1989]

But it doesn't!

Just because women avoid you doesn't mean it never happens.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

It’s not biological, it’s purely social

[Anonymous]

Boo boo for your problems.

[Asker]

enjoy your cats. I’m just trying to have a discussion never said I had a problem ;)

[Mike_Hum]

Because men are leaders.

[Anonymous]

True