Does he think of me as a little sister?

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Ok so I’m in HS an and I met a guy who’s some grades ahead and I look up to him as a brother, I’m the oldest so yea. But we’re not the close, but we call each other twin and friend, he kinda treats me how I would say he treats me as a sibling but I don't know bc I am the oldest so I don't know what it feels like to have an older brother. Other stuff he dose is like bangs on my window when I’m in his car or opens the car door for me. But yea am I just overthinking it or y’all see it too?

madhatters4 · Accepted Answer

when we ask speculative questions unfortunately there are only speculative answers. we do know him or truly know the characteristics of your relationship

i will say lots of guys befriend girls and in the back of their mind there may be a twinge of hope that it evolves to something else

less than above but still plenty of guys can see a girl as purely a platonic friend.

this guys feelings? i don't know. i wouldn't worry too much unless you start getting a feeling that he is feeling something you aren't necessarily comfortable with

Hardon-Collider · Accepted Answer

Reading this isn't confusing, but what's confusing is your intention.  Overthinking is still thinking. Let him know whatever you think of his actions.

cherrytreeblossom · Accepted Answer

i think it's cute, we also have some people act that way, but it's usually girls with girls acting like twins or boys with boys acting like brothers, but i know 2 people who have even gone to kindergarten together and they dont really play siblings, they essentially are bc they also spend so much time at eachothers' homes. but they hate it when people say that they're in love. hope this helps

MontBlanc · Accepted Answer

From what you described, it sounds more like older brother / protective vibes than romantic.

The “twin” nickname, playful teasing, opening doors that’s comfortable, sibling energy.

If he liked you romantically, you’d usually feel more tension or intentional flirting.

You’re probably overthinking it.

WhitneySnow · Answer

He might like you like you or he might just think of you as a little sister. It’s impossible to tell for sure just from these facts. Is he still in high school too?

Nikki1989 · Answer

When you’re the oldest child, you’ve spent your whole life being the "responsible one" or the leader, so having someone older step into a protective or playful role feels brand new.

Abbycado · Answer

How are you older than him, yet he is grades ahead of you?

MicahRaine · Answer

Hard to tell. You could just ask him and clarify? That's what I did with my little sister she's my family but we had to clarify things so we could actually be like family

Anonymous · Answer

You need to show him his little sister has bazookas

Alex-Snow · Answer

I think he cares about you but just as a friend. or do you think there is more to it?

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