If my boyfriend says I can’t wait to have kids without him saying us does it mean he doesn’t see himself having kids with me?

[Anonymous]

Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 6 years and we both want kids but it doesn’t seem like he wants them with me because when ever he is with me he brings it up saying I want to take me kids here one day and he also said when I have a daughter one day I want to do her nails. It’s weird how he didn’t say I want us to take our kids here. Why does this means he doesn’t see himself having kids with me in the future?

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2 mo

It’s also weird how he didn’t say to me I want to do our daughter’s nails. This means he doesn’t see a future with me?

[bowenw]

It's kind of weird the way he is saying it. I suggest you ask him directly what you want to know so you aren't wasting time with him if you aren't on the same page when it comes to kids and your future together.

[Asker]

Yeah how is it weird the way he is saying it?

[Asker]

And why is it weird the way he is saying it?

[bowenw]

It's weird because he is not saying he wants to have kids with you.

[bowenw]

Thank you for the MHO. 😊

[Anonymous]

You've been dating for 6 years. You probably should just have a conversation about your future.

[Asker]

We do talk about it. He says I instead of we when it comes to having kids. Isn’t that strange?

[Opinion Owner]

Ask him about it directly. It might be just the way he speaks. I'd bring up marriage if I was you.

[David318578]

If i was with a girl and had no interest in having any future with her with marriage or kids etc.. I would absolutely never bring up the fact that I want kids. It would be a topic to completely avoid.

The fact he is talking about future plans with you regardless on how he worded it means your part of his plans.

[strateguy632]

No! He means with you but avoided being direct and awkward.

[Asker]

I don’t know if I believe that. It doesn’t seem like he wants a future with me