Why do men assume a lunch invite at home means I want them to make a move?

[MissSunshine2]

[Anonymous]

Must be the men you’re hanging out w. A lot of men don’t assume that. I know I don’t. Time to find some new men or look at the vibe you’re putting out that you may not be aware of.

[msc545]

I think that anytime you invite a man to your home, there is the implication of the possibility of sexual activity.

[Nikki1989]

You only have to make eye contact with some men for them to think they are onto something.

[spartan55]

Eh.. I wouldn't, not for lunch. Dinner maybe, depending on the vibe.

[Daytoday79]

How do you know that's what they're thinking?

[MissSunshine2]

Because I invited a man over and he thought that.

[Daytoday79]

A lunch invite doesn't necessarily mean that you want him to make a move. I think a guy might be mistaken to assume that. Intimacy is much more about context/looks one gives/things you say/physical gestures.

[MissSunshine2]

Agreed.

[Mike_Hum]

Because you're inviting them into your home.

[Iron_Man]

don’t invite him at home they think that you want sex

[dragoblack]

Because guys are used to women hinting everything, so it's a guessing game for us.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Girl, it’s at your house. Same place as your bed.