Is he just not that into me?

[Anonymous]

I’ve been talking to a man for almost 3 years. He calls me multiple times a week for hours and shares everything in his life. He lives across the country, but he just got a job where he’ll be 2 hours from me for a few months. He hasn’t made any plans or shown any desire to see me but talks to me about other plans & things he does. Is this weird behavior? Is he just not that into me?

PS I did ask if we could see each other before he came & he never said anything about it.

[spartan55]

Neither of you are interested. Just put that 🐴 horse out of its misery.

[Anonymous]

Maybe you should bring it up.

[Asker]

I think so too.

[Nikki1989]

Long distance rarely, if ever, works.

[slatyb]

He can't meet you because he's not single. Date someone local.

[bowenw]

His actions are making it clear how he truly feels.

[Alex-Snow]

That is kind of weird. Is there someone else in his life atm?

[Asker]

Not that I know of. He makes it very clear that he doesn’t entertain other girls.

[Still-alive]

”I did ask if we could see each other before he came & he never said anything about it.”

he's not interested. Move on

[queenofcardio]

He definitely sounds uninterested

[In_Trance]

Nope