If your husband calls you names even if he's joking should you be offended?

[mrshooiser]

I am because called a f••••• doesn't sit well with me I was also called names in high school like that until I told people to just stop and started withdrawing from being around people.

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2 mo

I forgave him but told to never say that to me again. I guess it sucks as much as me calling him a liar and cheater when really he's not.

[Kayla45]

Uhh yeah? I would be offended too, especially when in a relationship that’s totally uncalled for, put your foot down and stand up for yourself, especially when dealing with men like that.

[queenofcardio]

I'd be so pissed. 😐

[Tomislav7]

Faqqot? No I was never bullied in HS. Maybe discretly i was being judged but i was unaware of gay people nor thought i was anything but straight. It wasn't until a gay drunk guy at a party tried hitting on me which made question am i gay? Girls dont like me and a gay guy did. I got ocd and depression stuck at home for 2yrs overanalyzing myself to insanity. Got a job at Mcds and the rest was history - bullied for being gay. 2015 - present

[slatyb]

That's not joking, that's passive aggressive and abusive. Yes, you should be offended. You need a couples counselor or an attorney.

[Alex-Snow]

Calling names is juvenile. He needs to grow up. A husband should never talk to a wife like that. Is it messing with your sex life also?

[mrshooiser]

I barley have a sex life. So no.

[Alex-Snow]

Ugg barely a sex life and you are only 32. uggggg hopefully you make time for some solo fun at least

[NathanDavis]

either you are offended... or you are not

others should not get to decide for you...