Would you be okay for your husband to call another girls name out all the time he saw her or say her name multiple times?

[Olgaa334]

[Bolt1104]

Personally, no, I wouldn’t be okay with that. If my husband kept saying another girl’s name all the time, especially in a noticeable or repetitive way, it would feel disrespectful and uncomfortable. A partner should make you feel secure and valued, not confused or compared to someone else.

Constantly bringing up another woman can signal emotional attention being directed outside the relationship, whether they mean it that way or not. It crosses a boundary, and it’s fair to address it. In a healthy relationship, both people should be mindful of how their words and actions affect their partner.

Respect and consideration are huge parts of commitment, and if something like that bothers you, you have every right to say so.

[Screenwriter]

This question isn't clear. WHy would a spouse say another woman's name all the time? In the bedroom? Saying someone's name when you see someone sounds normal. Saying it randomly sounds weird. Saying it during sex is all kinds of wrong. But you have to clarify the context.

[Olgaa334]

At work a coworker mentioned you’re name all the time

[Screenwriter]

Still unclear. Is your spouse mentioning this woman (coworker) all the time? Is he nobsessing over the coworker? What's really odd is that he'd tell YOU. I don't know what's going on. Sounds weird.

Might have to ask him why he's talking about another woman all the time. Don't know that you'll get an honest answer, but seems you need some reason for him bringing up this person constantly.

Have you been married a long time? Does he seem bored? Is your relationship bland? Weigh all these issues. Have you had recent marital issues? I'm just spit-balling. .

[ChicoFromThe305]

When the person is in the vicinity I think it's valid, but if the name comes up at the most unusual moments then it's a sign they cross the person's mind a lot more than it should, which probably means a specific couple have an important conversation to talk about

[DryGermanGuy]

Is this like a Candyman situation? You say her name three times and she shows up? 🤔

[Olgaa334]

Like let’s say a coworker

[Olgaa334]

Every time he sees you he says you’re name more than once

[Olgaa334]

Diana Diana Diana etc

[DryGermanGuy]

Sounds like one of these super-extroverted personalities that just can't shut up. I knew such a guy in highschool. Damn annoying.

[Olgaa334]

Lol ok

[YasinTR]

Of course, that would be infidelity. A person should be loyal to the one who is at the center of their life. Emotionality isn’t something that suits everyone.

[Olgaa334]

Right wym by emotionaly isn’t something that suits everyone

[YasinTR]

Yes..

[Olgaa334]

What do you mean by that was my question to you?

[Olgaa334]

U saying it sounds like he trying to cheat?

[YasinTR]

What? Cheat?

[Olgaa334]

Yea yea

[YasinTR]

No. I just expressed my opinions

[Olgaa334]

Is he trying to cheat this guy I mentioned at work?

[YasinTR]

Maybe. You can’t trust anyone.

[Nikki1989]

Not at all.

[Olgaa334]

Being friendly?

[beenherebefore]

No, I wouldn’t be okay with that.

[Olgaa334]

What’s that?

[Olgaa334]

Not like all the time but most of the time when he sees me

[Olgaa334]

Prob being friendly?