How would you stand up for your girlfriend when someone lies about her?

[Honeyateleven]

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[BCRanger10]

Fortunately, that has never happened with my wife. To my knowledge at least. If it did though and it were some kind of public matter, I'd make sure I had every fact and publicly discredit the accuser. If it were in a private matter, I'd confront the accuser privately.

[OneViewpoint]

Call out the liar and the lies. First time. Every time. No matter who it is or where we are. No matter how ugly it gets. Not just for a girlfriend. Any friend. Or a complete stranger being hung out to dry for something they didn't do. Failure to do that empowers the liar and promotes their behavior.

[MrOracle]

If my girlfriend is standing right next to me, by default, I'm going to let her handle it herself. She knows that if she wants me to get involved, she'll need to signal to me (usually by putting her hand on my arm) - otherwise, I don't want to undermine her ability to defend herself.

If she's not present, then, yes, of course, I'm going to defend her and attack the lies. And the same is true if she wants me to get involved when she's there.

As I've said here many times, I see my relationship as a TEAM.

As a team, you might criticize each other in private, but to the outside world, you ALWAYS defend the team, and you make decisions based on what is best for the TEAM, not just for yourself.

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

Not enough context for me

It depends on

• what my relation is with the someone in question
• what lies it would be
• whether or not she is present in the scene.

[cranberrycattoystory]

Totally ignore them, if it's just a small brawl... If it's a massive rumor, then I'd find out who started it, and end the liars with truth and facts. The lies may be so deep rooted as well, at that point I'd hope the facts actually stick out and people take you seriously as well... And fist fights are the worst way to go, unless you want jailtime...

[NathanDavis]

when that happened... we just ignored it, and that was enough

truth, often stands by itself and that's enough, lol

[UniquelyBasic]

she's able to stand by herself and people lying about her not being able to stand up are pathetic. Clearly she can walk just fine

[queenofcardio]

Ideally, he'd support me standing up for myself

[spartan55]

I'd ask them who tf they were talking about, and verbally intimidate them.

[Alex-Snow]

I would call the person out on their BS statements. I would also ask my girlfriend if she wants me to do anything else.

[Staximus]

I would just tell them to fuck off into the sunset 🌅

https://www.youtube.com/embed/ypKA0Vi6JaU

[Wodens_Apprentice]

I would beat the liar up, but I wouldn't tell her I did. It's going to be more powerful when she finds out.

[LiamS95]

I would refute the lies and stand by her side supporting her in every way possible both emotionally and physically.

[genericname85]

my girlfriend isn't a child. she can speak for herself.

[ChadThunderCack]

Well, to be fair irs probably true. The man is gonna look like a fool defending his degenerate girlfriend.

[exitseven]

punch him in the face.

[Marissa4]

I would tell them it’s not true.

[Bklynbadboy12]

It all depends on what they say

[theskyrider]

I would stand by her