Don't you agree it is weird how my friend yesterday brought up something from 10 years ago that I already apologized for?

[Anonymous]

He brought up yesterday during an argument in which I got mad at him for something,"You know what, you are an adulterer because you told me to look at a girl's ass in Walmart before I met my current wife in person," Keep in mind they met online before he moved to another state to be with her. He hasn't even met her in person yet and I ALREADY apologized for this the same year yet he brings up years later something again.

[Calyptomaniac]

Some people are petty and remember every little slight so they can remind you about it when it's convenient for them, like in the middle of an argument. Up to you to decide if you want to be friends with people who like to "keep score"

[Asker]

I admit it was wrong for me numerous times to bring up in 2016 and the years before while he was in an online romantic relationship to look at woman's asses but I eventually stopped and apologized for shit like that. He hasn't even met her in person yet. And I never told him to cheat, just look, but like I said I eventually stopped and apologized. I think it is best to stop being friends with him for this and for him only hitting me up when he needs something. He changed when he moved and became a lousy friend. And a narcissist. I mean what a baby bringing up something years later.

[Asker]

What do you think?

[Asker]

It is obvious you are the type of person that makes a big deal out of someone just looking at someone's ass. Lmao

[Calyptomaniac]

What on earth are you talking about? Why would I care if someone looks at someone's ass?

[Asker]

Did you even read my first reply to you?

[Calyptomaniac]

Yeah, it was mostly what you put in the question but with some irrelevant details. I told you it was up to you to be friends with him or not and I said he was petty, and nothing about your extra explanation changed what I think... so how you got to it being "obvious" what type of person I am is laughable especially when I said nothing about what you're talking about.

[Abbycado]

Yep, time to let things go or not be friends.

[Asker]

Dont you agree he is a drama baby for bringing up something from TEN YEARS ago just for looking at a woman's ass and that I already apologized for it?

[Abbycado]

I totally agree. Needs to move on.

[Asker]

He is obsessed with her so much. I remember how I told him that she seems nice when I talked to her and he is like"What do you mean she seems nice, of course she is." In my head I was like"Bro, I barely talked to her, and know her, chill out." I have decided to end the friendship. I haven't ended it yet but I am going to end it now. You are right. This is not good and also he became a lousy friend sometime during when he moved to another state. Only hitting me up for favors.

[Abbycado]

I agree again that it’s a good move to break that tie with this guy. Not worth the hassle in my opinion.

[Asker]

I ended it with him. Want to know what was said?

[AngryCarl3]

I read your spiel twice and I still don't understand any of it. If it helps at all it all sounds incredibly trivial.

[Asker]

He brought up how I told him to look at a woman's ass in 2016 while he was in an online romantic relationship. He brought it up yesterday during an argument.