If you get on FaceTime with a guy and the next day you text him first and he ends both of those interactions not asking to hang out is he oblivious?

[Anonymous]

[jamesgoldman]

Probably, I didn't pick up upon being flirted with until

A) my first girlfriend kissed me

B) the second spent 2 months chasing me, our colleagues told me and I thought it was a setup so I ignored them all and eventually ended up passed out of the dads couch with her head in my lap

[slatyb]

Oblivious or perhaps just not interested. Perhaps you should have asked him? Asking for what you want works a lot better than waiting for it to be offered to you.

[Asker]

If he was interested he would have asked?

[slatyb]

It goes both ways. He may be thinking "I wonder if she was interested. If she was, wouldn't she have made it obvious?" If you would like to meet him, ask him.

[Nikki1989]

If that is your idea of communicating, you are both clueless.

[Anonymous]

A lot of us are. Ask him yourself or make extremely obvious hints.