Why would a man rush into a relationship and talk about moving in?

[Justneedtokno]

Play I met someone and they were already kind of moving quickly like claiming me wanted to move in. It just seemed like very fast and it was a month.
So my question is do men know if you’re the one or not?

[ArrowheadSW]

I'm not sure someone can really tell if the person who they are dating is "the one" after a month. There is so much to find out about someone and I don't think a month is enough time.

I know a lady who just got married out of the blue. Her friends didn't even know that she had a boyfriend. She was just dating some other guy a few months earlier so I don't know how long she knew the guy that she married. I'm not sure how long this marriage will last. Time will tell.

[exitseven]

I knew my wife was the one the first day I met her. I just had to convince her.

[Justneedtokno]

Can you give me more information about this? How did you know? Were you prepared? Did you have a plan and how long did it take you to convince her?

[exitseven]

The day before we met I broke up with somebody I dated for a few months. I just got sick of her and dating in general. I was going to give up on dating for a while or maybe forever.
I went to where my family had a summer house. I was the first one to go there for the season and the winter was bad and there was seaweed and driftwood all over the lawn. I was raking it all up when this group of people walked by. I had a friend come with me and he stopped to talk to thje group. I did my best to ignore them and continued raking. Then I saw a girl in the rear. She was wearing cut off jeans and a tan jacket. She had big brown eyes and the prettiest smile I ever saw. She saw me looking at her and shyly turned away.
I was still raking when they returned from the beach. They stopped to talk and this time I talked to her. I wanted to impress her so I told her I had just run the Boston Marathon. I saw her look down at my legs maybe to see if I was lying. The next day we met in the grocery store. I actually followed her down the street and tried to talk to her. She would not tell me what her name was.
She did however tell me she just graduated from college and where she went to school. I went to the school and got the current yearbook and went page by page until I saw her picture. I also knew whattown she lived in so I got the phone book for that town and looked up her phone number.
It took me a couple of days to work up the nerve to call her. She was surprised I called and actually asked me how i tracked her down. I told her the story about the yearbook and she was actually impressed that I went through all the trouble to find her.

[exitseven]

Thanks for the MHO😎

[Anonymous]

Those types might be proposing to you in 3 months lol. Take it slow. That is waaaaay too fast. That's some people's style but don't let them rush you along. Stick to your timeline you are comfortable with. Moving in should wait. That may be go badly very fast, then what?

[Billlewis]

Maybe because he really wants a new relationship, he really likes you or he needs a place to stay? Other than that, I don't know.

[236color]

Some guys try to do this because they can't, or don't want to, support themselves.

[msc545]

Because he's having really good sex perhaps for the first time in his life. When the glow of that wears off and it will wear off very quickly, he will quickly change his mind.

[Iron_Man]

he must want sex

[NathanDavis]

their rent payments are due...

[glennos89]

Red flags all the way

[Anonymous]

Wow. Fast.