Why does this guy suddenly want to talk after yelling at me?

[Anonymous]

So there's this guy i had liked awhile at rhe gym he kept talking about thinking about asking me out, talking to others even saying it a few feet away from me to another guy. I jsut sent a friend request or two to try and make contact since he was always busy and didn't want to interrupt him with his clients. He yelled at my turned back to leave him alone which hurt pretty bad. I ended up switching gyms and filing a complaint feeling kinda harassed and didn't want anything fo do with him no more. Its been 5-6 months he's apparently complaining to people he wants to talk to me? I feel he should learn actions hsve consequences and don't want to bother with him?

[Coercion_Is_Trauma]

"Actions have consequences" is the most juvenile way of being smart. What, you think he doesn't know that actions have consequences? You think there is one adult in the world that doesn't know they do?

Being rude is a byproduct of chasing humility. Chasing humility means swallowing any discomfort and repressing it. Which is cowardly. Chasing humility always causes cowardice and the only way to become humble is to chase bravery and quit repressing. When something annoys you, feel the annoyance without trying to kill self or other. That's bravery and through it humility comes naturally.

"Actions have consequences" is a part of fake humility culture. All humility without bravery is fake. ㅤ

[Iron_Man]

That whole thing is weird, but I don’t think you should’ve had filed a complaint and now you’re gonna get him in trouble

[Nikki1989]

That is what you get from talking to men at the gym.

[Anonymous]

There must be more to the story. Try considering his perspective.

[blshbnz]

Ignore him don’t communicate with him

[Asker]

In other words he's playing games?

[blshbnz]

I mean you don’t really know the dude. If he’s yelling at a female like that who knows what he’ll do. I’d stay away and be cautious.

[spartan55]

I would love to hear his side of this story.

[pearlshelledfairy]

Stay away and block him/them.

[Anonymous]

Ignore that jerk