Should I text this guy I miss or protect myself from more drama?

[Anonymous]

Long story short there’s this guy I’m somewhat interested in. Can’t tell if I like him as a friend or something more.

Enough to miss him when he’s not around. The last time I saw him more than 1.5 months ago I was hurt at something he did.

I haven’t seen him since then. I’m confused whether to text him as I don’t know if that was one off behaviour or he’s a jerk and texting him would cause unnecessary drama (him telling people who don’t like me I like him etc.)

[Abbycado]

Are you past what he did to you that hurt you?

[Asker]

Not completely because it made me feel like maybe he doesn’t like me

[Abbycado]

I think it may be best to wait until you have gotten past it before potentially drumming up old feelings. That is my suggestion.

[Asker]

The thing is more then him saying yes or no I’m concerned if he is a jerk he may tell the others and I’ll get a reputation for being that girl who approaches guys

[spartan55]

@asker You don't a reputation for approaching guys. Where did you hear that nonsense? Tik Tok?

[Anonymous]

Holy smokes men this is what you have to deal w these days if you’re single. A lot of these women are drawn to drama. Learn your lesson. Move on.

[Anonymous]

Yes. You have unresolved issues with this guy. 1.5 months is a long time, but it can get much worse. Trust me.

[spartan55]

This is desperate. Not texting a guy first.

[Asker]

What is?

[spartan55]

What you are doing?

[Asker]

Which is? Asking a question on gag?

[radiomechanic]

Go ahead and text him

[Asker]

But he didn’t give me his number were part of the same group so it may be obvious

[spartan55]

@asker
What will be obvious?

[Anonymous]

Text him

[Asker]

He didn’t give me his number. Were part of the same group