Did he wanted a second chance because he sent me a pic asking if the earrings belong to me?

[bobalife]

It was someone I was seeing briefly a month ago. He ended things. And honestly I’m glad he did because looking back we got along yet not 100% compatible. Well it was my earrings… of course I wanted it back but I didn’t want him back. He asked how do I want it back. I told him to mail it to me lmao.

[ohsheeT]

The thing about guys when they walk away nine times out of 10 it's because they think they found something better

They tried to end it with no drama these are the worst type of guys or the guy that has been married for a long time have been dating for a long time thinks he has found something better so he leaves goes lives with the other girl and she finds out who he truly is down deep she tells him to get lost and who do they always go back to the one they left for the new girl

The sad part about this is nine times out of 10 it's not going to work anyway it's nothing but a waste of time

But these girls were always deeply in love and they don't know how to love themselves or walk away

I would say that he sent you the picture and ask you the question because he's either lonely or the girl he walked away for told him to get lost

When a man likes you and you start dating he's going to do anything and everything in his power to be with you

I always say that he had a chance to prove himself to you and he blew it for whatever reasons but he walked away. And for me that means Now you're just a convenient Maybe maybe he's lonely But I think you have a good head on your shoulders and I think you'll Makes the right decision

[bobalife]

Well said as always, thank you!

And trust, I did. That’s why I told him to just mail it to me loool. I really don’t want to see him.

[ohsheeT]

And that is one of the smartest things you can do for many different reasons and you already know that one step in front of the other and keep moving on until you get to where you're going

[spartan55]

That's reaching real far. I think he just wants to return the earrings to who they belong to.

[spartan55]

It wouldn't be a 'second chance' if he ended it. 🤦

[bobalife]

Chill sir, it’s just a question. You taking it too personal. And nah people def come back even if they ended it.

[spartan55]

What? What am I taking personal? I was just answering your question with my logic behind it.

[Anonymous]

Probably, yeah or he has a new girl and doesn’t want to explain why he has them lol

[bobalife]

Lol dang that’s an interesting perspective! But we do live 45-50 mins apart. So I know he would be down to meet if I said so. I think that’s why I was like hmm interesting given our distance bc he could’ve just throw it away or something

[Veronika_p]

Maybe he genuinely just wanted to give it back

[NathanDavis]

don't recycle what's not worth... lol

[bobalife]

Loool si si you said it perfectly

[FrodoSkywalker007]

Sorry it didn't work out 🙁

[bobalife]

I’m good and moved on hella quick. No reason to hold onto people who didn’t wanna make it work. It was for the best.

[FrodoSkywalker007]

I'm glad it worked for you then! ☺

[WhitneySnow]

Yes probably

[Paige2006]

Yes he did