Do you think guys put in less effort when a girl is always saying yes and making things too easy for them? Or does it depend on the guy?

[ElenaLena]

[queenofcardio]

It's definitely possible. If a woman is easygoing and easily impressed, I can see how a guy might feel like he has to put in little effort, because it seems like the woman is more interested in him. I know I definitely put in more effort when I'm unsure about how someone feels about me.

[ElenaLena]

Makes sense.. yeah

[queenofcardio]

Is that what you were thinking, or something else?

[ElenaLena]

It’s just a hypothetical question 😄
But yeah.. your answer very logical

[Still-alive]

There is that motto i hear often ‘whoever cares the least has more power in a relationship’

[ElenaLena]

@queenofcardio tell mister wiseman to go away 😄

[Still-alive]

I’ll accept the compliment heh 😏

[ElenaLena]

@Still-alive you still here?

[Still-alive]

Thats a matter of opinion if im here or not lol 😝

[ElenaLena]

@Still-alive

[Still-alive]

Strangely hot lol 😂

[Still-alive]

I dunno about other guys but for me it’s the opposite, if I know there’s actual mutual attraction i would put even More effort in. Its like i was running a marathon and just got to the winning stretch. Imma sprint faster to the finish line!

by the way if you meet dudes who actually do stop putting effort in if they know you like them you should probably just drop. They’re likely players and just enjoy the chase more than actually committing. My 2 cents on that.

[ElenaLena]

Thanks for your 2cents 😄

[queenofcardio]

Did I read running a marathon

[Still-alive]

@queenofcardio lmao i see you

[queenofcardio]

You do see me lol

[ElenaLena]

@queenofcardio let’s go do marathon you and me and leave mister wiseman alone 😄

[Still-alive]

Lol 😂

[queenofcardio]

I'm always down to run

[ElenaLena]

@queenofcardio you know there is a change I win the race 😄

[queenofcardio]

A chance? I doubt it lol

[Still-alive]

@queenofcardio she messed up her spelling i think that means you got this in the bag lol 😂

[ElenaLena]

@queenofcardio I swear.. I am very good at running 😄
@Still-alive I’ll come and get you soon 👿

[queenofcardio]

Let's do it lol

[Still-alive]

@queenofcardio ill shoot the blancs for ya! On your mark… lol

[queenofcardio]

@Still-alive I'm sure you'll love the show 😂

[Zack-Bann]

I think it depends.
I personally prefer a girl who knows what she wants and has no problem allowing herself to have it.
It makes me more likely to put in effort if I happen to be what she desires…

[ElenaLena]

That’s nice 🙂

[NathanDavis]

I don't know about other guys but I don't like things easy, I won't even get into that

that being said though... things that are TOO EASY... do not require any effort by definition

[ElenaLena]

What is your definition of “easy”

[ElenaLena]

But I agree with you 💯.. easy things don’t need effort..

[Alex-Snow]

I think it depends on what she is always saying yes to. Differences of opinion while being open and honest can have some positive aspects in a relationship. It is ok not to think alike or agree all the time.

[ElenaLena]

Definitely

[stevenkelly]

I think it depends on the guy. If someone genuinely likes you, you saying yes and being easygoing shouldn’t make him stop putting in effort. If anything, he should appreciate that you’re interested and want to keep things good. The ones who lose interest just because they don’t have to chase usually wanted the chase more than the person.

[Nikki1989]

That does have a lot to do with it.

[ElenaLena]

That’s what I’m thinking too

[Friendlybro79]

It has to depend on the guy because we're all not the same.

[ElenaLena]

Of course

[MannMitAntworten]

If you are questioning his behavior chances are good you two are not on the same path.

[DishLady]

Of course.