Why do men on this site push for private messages when women usually don’t?

[Babyseal23]

I just find it strange when I sometimes ask a question on here its always men who say "i have some advice but I you can message me so we cab speak privately" why do you need to speak to me privately there's anonymous option and no one from you personal life would know you oh here surly.

Plus you just get a lot of random guys message you on here and then get mad when yoh don't reply like im a married woman with a baby i think its disrespectful to private message with a man I don't know on a personal level like a friend, relative or colleague nor so i have any need to.

I just find it strange as no woman ever behave this why on this site 🤔😅 I think i know why but I just like to call these guys out it and see if im wrong

[AI Opinion]

On GirlsAskGuys, private messages work like this:

- To send a private message, someone must:
- Visit your profile and use the “Send a Message” feature
- Be at least Xper Level 2
- Messages older than 3 months are automatically deleted.
- Some members limit who can message them (for example, only people they follow), depending on their privacy settings.

You’re absolutely not obligated to message anyone privately, and it’s fine to think it’s disrespectful or uncomfortable given that you’re married and don’t know these men personally.

If you don’t want this kind of interaction, you can:

1. Ignore and don’t reply – you never have to explain yourself.
2. Block the user – this prevents further messages from that account.
3. Report harassment – if someone is pushy, rude, or makes you uncomfortable, you can:
- Report them at: https://www.girlsaskguys.com/contact
- The platform states that cyberbullying/harassment is not tolerated.

More info:
- Private messages & how they work: https://www.girlsaskguys.com/faq/features
- Harassment & safety: https://www.girlsaskguys.com/faq/account

If anyone becomes especially insistent or abusive in DMs, don’t respond, block them, delete the message, and report it. You’re completely within your rights to keep all your interactions public on questions only.

[lilBigPotato]

Mostly horny men. Answer a sexual question and then will come like the flies. Just ignore or tell them that you're not interested. You can also put your profile so only people you follow can message you. And if someone insults you, it's just a confirmation that it was correct to not talk to them.

[blackgaletiger]

Hmmm. Interesting. My theory is that female ask question. Male see female ask question. Male think ‘oh a female has been spotted me wanna get comfy’. Its seems pretty normal. Unless that question requires an genuine off record conversation im pretty sure what the intent of a private message is

[Nikki1989]

Most men on here just want to paddle in the old pink canoe. Their brains don't expand much past that.

[valentina4eva]

because many of the men here mistake GaG for a dating app lol😅

[Dargil]

They are hoping to arrange a date. Or start sexting.

[Kelly6]

@Babyseal23 Sexting

[Babyseal23]

Bingo 🤣

[Kelly6]

@Babyseal23
Get flooded by sexting lol

[jahaims]

They want to make it sexual obviously

[Paige2006]

So they can asl very personal questions

[Siajanua2027]

They both do...