Yeah, I'm sort of in that situation right now.
Me and this girl has been texting back and forth, and I'm almost always the one that starts the conversations/texts her back first and asks her questions. She responds well, but she just hasn't initiated texting me out of the blue. It's really frustrating, because we've both have had a great conversation over text for days now, but I feel like I'm always having to initiate conversatons as if I have to impress her all the time, when we are already past that stage now and both like each other.
Last time we talked was 2 days ago over text, so I decided to not text her back for 2 days hoping she would text back and ask me how my day was or something. I caved in and decided to text her back earlier today, and waiting for her text.. It really is frustrating, but I really do like her.
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Yes, most guys will back off if they think it's going nowhere. We see it as both a waste of time and having the possibility of getting our feelings hurt even more if we where to still be around you (since we'd end up liking you even more, making it harder to break it off later on).
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Generally yes. Some guys who've spent their lives being a nice guy will flip the switch and just stop caring and become emotionless and detached.
I know I've stopped caring about a girl I wasted 3 months on.yup
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