I told my guy friend that I like him while I was drunk...

[Anonymous]

Okay so I have two guy friends who are both friends also. Let's just call them friend A and friend B. I just recently stopped liking friend A because I realized he isn't boyfriend material but there's definitely still something there between us. He has no idea I like him and we've never done anything more than cuddle. But when I stopped focusing on friend A, I realized I kind of like friend B. Friend B and I have also cuddled, he also has paid for my drinks when we go out and paid for a gym membership of mine and told me I could pay him back later and hasn't bothered me about it at all, he has told me I'm pretty and blah blah blah. We talk about the people we are seeing and dating and act just like friends but flirt too. Well basically last night we were all out and friend A and I started cuddling which we Haven't done in forever because he has a girlfriend now. So it was pretty inappropriate but it happened. Then friend B drove me home and hugged me goodbye and I sent him a text saying "sooo the truth is, I like you a little bit and am down for the cause. but if you don't feel the same, its all good." and it's been a day now and he hasn't said anything. If you were this guy, what would you be thinking/what would you do? And is there anything I should do?

[FaceInTheCrowd]

Being drunk is a get-outta-jail-free card as far as social faux pas are concerned. At least he knows what you felt, and has watered it down with the fact you were loaded. If you change your mind you can say it was the booze dancing.

[Asker]

right but should he respond to my text and give me an answer or is he probably assuming that I was just drunk and that I didn't mean it? I haven't changed my mind and do want him to know I'm interested but I don't want to be pushy. I'm not sure what to do/what to expect from him if he is interested

[FaceInTheCrowd]

If has any brains in his head he probably not interested... you sounds like trouble to me.

[Asker]

im not trouble but I can see how I seem that way.

[FaceInTheCrowd]

maybe it was the booze dancing huh =(

[Asker]

is this irreparable? or can I fix it?

[PuffyPink]

Have you told him when you haven't been drinking so he knows you're sincere?

[Asker]

No, I have only told him this one time. should I tell him that I meant it or something? or just wait for him to respond?

[PuffyPink]

I think he might not be responding because you were drunk and he doesn't think you were serious.

[Asker]

so what should I do?

[PuffyPink]

If you're comfortable with it, I'd tell him when he knows you're being sincere