If you've told him how you feel about this and his behavior hasn't changed, then that's just the way he's always going to be. He expects you to do all of this, he doesn't see it as something special you're doing for him that should be appreciated. He's very ungrateful and is fully taking you for granted.
That's a pretty bad attitude to have if you ask me, but you have to decide if you want to put up with this poor treatment or not. How can a soul mate or best friend treat you this way? The answer is he wouldn't. I think you should break up and find another guy who actually respects you and appreciates what you do for him.
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Leave. Break up. You're turning into his mother. I like taking care of the men in my life but if they don't appreciate it, it doesn't happen again. If I'm going to be taking care of them, it's done on my terms. Laundry doesn't end up in the hamper? It might just end up outside, and certainly not washed. Don't say thanks for cooking or clear off the dish? No more food. And mending happens when I have time, not a minute before. Therefore, you leave. Or you get tough and stop doing things for him. Leaving will be easier but you're going to stay until staying is worse than leaving.
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Find a new boyfriend. You will never get respected by him. It doesn't even sound like you respect yourself. You're putting yourself on a lower level. He is the king and you're a servant and you put up with it. You can't change those dynamics, that's the way it is because you allowed it. You let him treat you like that and that's why he runs over you.
uh-oh! A mamma's boy. His mother has spoiled him to the point of expecting things and not appreciating the thought behind it. Plus, you are not his wife! He should do his own laundry and fix his own pants. You can not live your life trying to please someone else. That being said...
Talk to him about your feelings. A loving boyfriend would want to work things out.Um . . . what does HE do for YOU. I have a sneaking suspicion he treats you the way his Dad probably treats his Mom, who, coincidentally, does 'everything' for them. Religion teaches men to respect the church and other men, not their wives. Wives respect their husbands. Is this how you want to live? I'd dump his sorry ass.
He'd. Respect you if you respected yourself enough to leave him.
Break up.
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