I'm 18 and have never been asked out by any guy i feel so pathetic?

[Anonymous]

Honestly I don't know whats wrong with me. I'm nice but I'm shy and I see girls with different guys every week and I can't even get one of them to ask me out. I don't flirt much and I didn't think I was ugly but I'm not the most attractive girl either. I would see guys stare at me and look away when I look back at them and they never come up to me. I haven't gotten asked to homecoming or prom or any dances ever. They ask out other girls and I always see girls in relationships and I'm so jealous because I've never been in one. I've never even been asked out. I just don't understand why I haven't been asked out before. They don't even come up to talk with me the only kind of flirting I get is stares from guys. A lot of the guys I find attractive stare at me but I know they don't like me cause they never talk to me or try to get my number :(

[TouglyforaGF]

I'm nice but I'm shy and I see girls with different guys every week and I can't even get one of them to ask me out. I'm the same way except for the whole guys asking me out part lol. I'm 28 and never had a GF how do you think I feel? I have to masturbate everyday to let out my sexual urges. It sucks seeing guys with girlfriends and I can't even get a freaking hello from girls. I feel like I have to commit a crime to get women and girls to notice me. Look at it this way your only 18 and guys will eventually talk to you. I and other guys like me don't have that luck unless we're good looking, rich or tall. It just pisses me off how I'm always hearing looks don't matter when they do.

[rUinSAYAN]

some say looks don't matter while they give you an ugly face. thats just how people are, the truth hurts. people look al for looks thats why even fat/ugly girls look for guys that are out of their league. I can even approach an ugly girl and get a no, cause when I approach they think something is wrong with me and think they are "hot" just for one moment. Approaching a girl that thinks she's much hoter than me will play with me but thats more ok. I'm into gaming!

[TouglyforaGF]

@Strangee I agree 100%. I see it too ugly girls believe their entitled to MR GQ LOL. But guys are taught to shut up and take what we can get. Women/Girls are usually told don't settle for a 5 when you can have a 8 or 9. Double Standard.

[Hartman34]

Going to be honest I didn't date until recently. I just went through this and honestly sometimes people just date differently. Maybe try being the assertive one. I started joking and lightly flirting with my female friends and it seemed to change the way I talked with ladies period. The confidence change did a lot for me.

[Spikeroy]

Yearrrrrr girl you're not alone there. I was hit on when I was twelve and couldn't care less. Then it went from guys to girls magically hitting on me saying they wished I was a guy cause they loved me or some shit so it's not that bad you get used to it and hopefully you'll get an out going friend to help you mix and mingle.

[PakiGurl]

If they look at you, they probably find you attractive. They just don't approach you because they are intimidated by you. Just glance at them with a small smile occasionally and they'll get the idea that you're interested.

And those girls get a new guy every week? LOL you don't want that, trust me.

[Asker]

Why would I be intimidating? I'm not mean and they don't seem that shy. They kind of act like the they wouldn't care if they get rejected type of guys.

[PakiGurl]

Intimidating doesn't always mean that you're mean. Just that they don't know if you are interested in them. If they aren't shy with the other girls, then they just use them because they seem easy. With you they think you would want a serious relationship so they don't bother. So think of it has a blessing they aren't approaching you! :)

[clueless14]

I didn't go on my first date until I was 20. There's no rush. But if you are antsy to start dating, I suggest you start making the first move and showing some interest in guys.

[PeppaPig]

i went for the first date when i was 20...i am normal, not shy...
wait...no need to hurry

[Cyhhgg]

Can't say I care too much. How you feel now is pretty much an average mans default setting. Even the good looking ones.

[ThatBritishLad]

My dear, I haven't so much as locked eyes with potential prey - save for that one time with the puke and all that.

[NoblesseOblige]

Height/weight?

[Asker]

I am 5'6 and 117

[NoblesseOblige]

That's decent.

Be more aggressive.