Polls: Guy's Behavior

I feel like lots of guys only make friends with woman or keep friends with women they fancy, not always the case but Let’s find out.

honestly I see so many men say they hate women who wear makeup, dress up, or get their nails done etc, Only like natural beauties, I get liking natural girls I get it wanting a natural beauty, but it’s strange to me why so many guys would hate a woman who puts effort into her appearance rather than just wakes up gets out of bed then chucks anything on with zero effort, why do you think so many men say this? I’m not talking about “high maintenance” I’m talking just a woman who takes care of herself and makes a effort what is unattractive about making a effort? Like I notice men don’t seem to have a problem about women going to the gym or taking care of her body or weight but I don’t see why a woman dressing up or making herself look nice is a bad thing because it shows they care about themselves in the same way if they work out or put effort into their bodies, surely it’s a good thing. opinions? (I know this isn't all men by the way, it’s why I put “some”)

A lot of people I know seem to find the body type below as the perfect body, both male and female. I wanted to know if this is what you guys would consider in an ideal and “perfect” world as the most attractive?

The guy I'm in a sexual relation with told me that he 'almost bought me something' so he asked when is my birthday.

As I've told him that we can see each other for only one last time because I want to. I want to move on to better relationships etc this was just a sex vibe. He tells me that :'I never buy you something nice when is your birthday?' so I'm like no you don't have to. I told him to keep whatever it is he wants to do for me because I feel like he is being very manipulative or I don't know what his trying. He always ask me :'Dont you wanna stay with me until you found the one?' he asked me this tonight aswell. So based on what he was asking me I can see his not genuine or doesn't see me as anything more but he keeps telling me he almost bought me something. And he says even though we gonna do it for one last time he will still buy the gift.

I'm wondering guys? Girls? We have been seeing each other for almost two years now. He tells me he is sorry for the other years he missed. But he feels like he wants to buy me something this year.

Thoughts. Opinions?

I think that most women think about their crushes often and fantasize about being with them a lot throughout the day or even before going to bed at night. Is this the same for men? No one ever talks about guys having the girl they like stuck in their mind and I'm wondering if men and women aren't so different in that aspect. I know everybody is different, but in general. If yes, what do you think about?

We were friends with benefits and he begged me for a relationship, I was cool with fucking with no strings attached. When I found out I was pregnant I was going to get an abortion but he begged me to keep the baby and claimed to want to be a family. I also found out he was chasing his ex and not over her and lying and telling people I forced a relationship and baby on him and wouldn't let him go. I'm trying to figure out why a man would do this? If he wanted his ex I would've gladly got out the way and aborted the baby. 🤷

Ok so I met this guy and we really hit it off until we both realized our dating styles are way different. Personally I like to get to know someone before taking that first step as a couple, as boyfriend and girlfriend. And I think that's pretty reasonable. BUT he wants to be exclusive from the get go, like "if you're gonna see me you can't see anyone else." And that's without the labels. Immediate Exclusivity without being a real couple. I get that everyones different and he has every right to have his standard's, but does anyone else think this is a strange way of going about a relationship?

So it’s been going on two weeks now that my boyfriend spends 12+ hours playing video games. Now I’ve asked his brothers and their girlfriends and I guess it‘s a pretty normal thing around here to always be playing video games. No one is working right now so there isn’t much to do. The reason I’m upset is simple. He plays video games from 8PM the night before til 8AM the next morning. He sleeps til 3PM, we take a walk, he has dinner with me and spends an hour or so with me and is back on by 8PM. And it’s this vicious cycle. I normally get upset, but not upset to the point that I want out. But today, he pushed it. Yesterday he slept til 6PM, ruining not only our day but the last day his whole family is in town together. When he finally woke up, we all had dinner and by 8PM he was back on the game. It is 11:30AM and he JUST went to bed. And only bc I yelled at him and threaten to call his boss since he’s going to work at 4PM and it’s unsafe for him to work without sleep. Then he expects to come home from work at midnight and already told his gamer friend he’d be on at 1AM to quest. I’m so angry bc it’s like he never fucking spends time with me, he never sleeps next to me, he ruins our day and the bit of time we actually get to spend with his family, and on top of all this? He just yelled at me saying I’m negative and I’m the reason he doesn’t want to come to bed and how he’s a grown man and gets to decide what to do with his time, etc. Like somehow by victimizing himself, I’d understand why he games. No! Instead it makes me want to leave bc what the fuck is the reason for me to stay? I am so angry but I need to know, do I even have the right to be angry? What should my next move be?