Polls: Guy's Behavior

Me and this guy have a little flirtation going on.. we stare at each other all the time and ask each other personal questions with intense eye contact.

today I was chatting with someone else (another guy) and the guy in question was smirking while looking down at the ground - kind of smug.

Is this jealousy?

I asked a question on 'women helping men feel manly' a few days ago, and an exchange with one guy urged me to ask this question.


He said it was probably mostly traditional guys, and I somewhat agree. But I want to know what more guys think in general. And women too :) So I tried to make the poll as comprehensive as possible.

So this guy who I like a lot and I have been talking and he's starting to act like he likes me (ie. Messaging me all the time, we became #1 best friends on sc BC he always messages multiple times a day to talk and ask how I am, is flirty.)

This night he sends me this out of the blue. Like, he didn't even start the conversation with "hey." Just jumped right in and asked me what I'd do if he kissed me. he's done this before kind of. When he had a HUGE crush on me, he asked me "would you date someone in my grade? not asking for me, I'm just curious."

Also, a bit after he asked me if I wanted to go see a new movie with him when it comes out (he usually brings along a friend, never mentioned one this time)

I have two questions :
1) did he message me this because he wants to try and kiss me
2) what exactly does "I'd let it be" mean? (Like, I think it means he'd go along and kiss me back but I'm not entirely sure.)

Thanks to everyone who contributes!

I saw a question about relationship dynamics, and about 30% of guys wanted a traditional wife, which was specifically described as the woman making sure the man 'felt like a man'.

Having never felt like the other gender because of the way I'm being treated (bc I firmly know I'm a woman) I'm VERY confused on what that means?

Guys help a woman out (even my boyfriend had no idea what this meant)

Me, I'm thin, so most people claim I need to eat more. However they DON'T know that I'm basically a bottomless pit. Those people have just never seen me eat. Also my absolute FAVORITE food is a good burger. However most burgers can be a little messy... especially that first bite. So I'm always awkward around eating around guys. Like other girls it's like "lol, this is so messy" but guys it's just awkward super slow tiny bites... it's the worst. I hate it so much. And then they finish their food before me because I'm trying to hard to be nice and neat, but it's awkward sitting there eating while they're done.
I don't even go out on dates a lot. But my workplace had a fast food place inside of it, so I eat A LOT of burgers, as do my co-workers. So I often run into my dude co-workers while I'm eating. Now if it's someone whose just my friend I don't even care. They're my buddies, I could snort mayo on accident while laughing and it'd just be funny. But the guy I DO like goes there a lot too, and SOMEHOW we almost ALWAYS end up on lunch at the SAME TIME. I've never sat with him for lunch because I'm worried about looking gross in front of him. BUT I ALSO REALLY WANNA SIT WITH HIM, because otherwise the ONLY time we see each other is when I run into him when I'm trying to get to other places.

So are guys just like REALLY okay with a woman eating plenty in front of him? Don't lie please!

Her butt isn't big but its not completely flat either, however from the side, her boobs poke out further than her butt. she's more top heavy

I've always been curious if older men (40+) might feel attracted to young women (25+)? If so, why is this? What is attractive young women?

Feel free to share your opinion, thank you! 😊

I remember having a good amount of guys back in school who had full beards at the age of 13/14/15! Most of them had decent good beards by the time they started HS.
But my bro is 17 and still didn't grow one.

I'm obsessed with beards and I''m just curious ^_^

Without Beard :/ (MEH) :



With Beard (WOW) <3 :

This happens to me so much and I don't get it! They will say hey, I will say hey, and then they will never respond. Or they will hit me up, keep conversation for like a few minutes and then stop replying, only to do it again a month later or so? It just doesn't make sense to me why they waste their time doing that to me. Any theories?

Most of the guys I know are all too feminine. They're afraid to approach women and they don't have any confidence at all. A lot of them just play video games all day and don't do anything to strengthen their character, which is something a man would do. It seems like men are just becoming very feminine. Do you agree?

Well, I'm 18, and have never had sex before. Not only that, I've never even touched myself either! I know what happens, I'm not stupid. I just... haven't. And while I get the general idea, I only know two positions for sex, and of course I've never been undressed in front of a guy so I'm kinda super shy about it.

That said, the guy I've recently started seeing is older than me. And he's experienced. I don't know how many girls he's been with, he's not the type to flaunt such things. But sometimes when we're kissing he sort of starts playing with my shirt, and he's touched my breasts a few times. I like it. And I do want to go further, but he doesn't know I've never slept with anyone. And I'm afraid of being naked in front of him. I have a nice body shape, flat stomach, decent sized breasts, but I have acne on my back and a little bit on my chest so that doesn't help my insecurity. But yeah, OBVIOUSLY I don't know what I'm doing, so I actually have a few questions too.

Do you guys mind showing a girl around the bedroom?
Does it bother you guys when she's never been with anyone before?
Do you mind when she has acne on her back?

And for any girls, how can I not be so nervous about undressing in front of a guy?

So me and this guy have been talking via message a lot, and we like each other. He usually messages first but i want to message him today because he hasn't messaged. I have messaged first a few times but i always feel like i have to lead the conversation when i do this.
So is it true guys that you find it threatening or it impinges on your freedom when a girl texts first?
If you like her would you like her to text and ask how your day was etc?

So, I met this guy on Tinder. He was nice, charming and respectful. Same age as me. We cleared things about what we are looking for quite early. Neither of us was interested in hooking up, one night stands, etc. There were no red alarms, no weird signs, no bad gut feelings, nothing. Usually my gut always tells me when something is not right. He always stated how honesty is really important to him and asked me to be always direct and honest. We had a really good chemistry. Online and in real. Sex also happened and it was great. After sex nothing really changed - we chatted the same amount, he was still interested in me. I was surprised, because usually I am really cautious about letting someone getting under my skin. But even after sex he remained the same: nice, charming, respectful and looked still very interested in me. A week after sex he asked me out again. Evening before our date, he cancelled it. Saying there was some family emergency stuff. He apologized for cancelling and seemed honest about it. I wished him good luck with whatever is going on, we said goodbye and than he had to go to the family. After this I have never heard from him again. I never tried to contact him as well. I noticed he also deleted his Tinder account (but he was active on some other chat app we used to text).
Now it`s been almost 2 weeks without any word from him, without any contact. I also haven't tried to contact him in any way, because I believe if a person is really interested, he/she will try to contact you. But I haven't done anything in order to contact him as well, so I guess I`m living by double standards? I dont know.

Do you guys (and girls) think he just made an excuse to "run away" and I should text him to say "Hi, how are you? It seems like you disappeared?" Or I should just move on?

I started texting this guy he asked me to go for coffee next time I'm near him, as my sister lives where he does and I usually visit up there. So we've been texting but I always have to initiate the conversation and I'm starting to feel like he's not that interested.

He always responds immediately and keeps the conversation going but he just never initiates. He has sent me a Snapchat once or twice first. I'm a bit confused what to do. I haven't text him in two days and he still hasn't said anything to me.

He did tell me he hates texting and gets fed up with it but what do you think?

This guy in my college class that I had a thing for and I had been mirroring each other and he was showing signs of having feelings for me. After we messaged and I realised it could actually go somewhere, i panicked and went shy, didn't really talk to him for the week but did try to message him on Facebook, he replied quite short. I feel that he is upset or disappointed.

Is this a salvageable situation? If it were you, would you be put off? Do guys just loose feelings for girls if they don't see reciprocation?

I drew these sketch renderings of my own body (i'm not comfortable with posting actual pictures and these are pretty much 100% accurate) and i'd like to know if men find this body type attractive. I've been pretty insecure about my body for the past couple years with the "thick" craze that's been going on among both men and women where very feminine figures particularly with big butts, wide hips, and small waists are emphasized and often accompanied with big boobs. I have none of these attributes, i'm about 5' 3" and 110 pounds, with A cup breasts and narrow high hips and a very small butt. Its hard seeing only one body type glorified all over social media all the while i constantly see girls with small butts being shamed or made fun of which makes me feel bad about my own body. That being said, people often tend to put on a show for others so i was wondering so guys really only like thick/curvy figures on women as much as they make it seem or are petite bodies with small curves also appealing?

I swear like 90% of the guys on gag are submissive af.