I have a theory that all men are secretly submissive. Anyone agree with me?

[Luci92]

I swear like 90% of the guys on gag are submissive af.

Yes, ALL men are secretly submissive.

What the hell are you on about, Luci?

[QooLipBite]

You have to take into consideration that the characteristics of most of these males and their level of activity on GAG do have a common correlation.

Most males that use this site do not have characteristics that correspond with the majority of the population, for example you will find tons of 'Beta' males, or 'perverted' males or 'mgtow/mysogynist' males because this site simply caters for their expression.

Which is why you don't EVER base any conclusion of gender related surveys purely on GAG polls.

Because that's like me going into a feminazi forum/environment, conducting a survey and concluding that all women secretly hate men. No. Because if you were to extend the boundaries into REAL life and conduct a survey on EVERYONE so that its inclusive, the results would be totally different.

[Luci92]

So you're telling me... majority of gag males are basement dwellers?

[QooLipBite]

Not necessarily 'basement dwellers' to the extreme. More of that their less competent circumstances allow for them to spend their time surfing forums and sites such as these.

[Luci92]

lmao you are hilarious.

[QooLipBite]

lol, you not serious 😂. Oh what? Must I use simple concepts and language to explain things to you? 😂

[iceEverestere]

You asked yesterday that why are you blamed of being a troll?
Well you know... at least I understand why. Lol😂😂
Just kidding.
Well, most men here have depression or some related shit and are very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very very poor representation of Actual men/boys.
Actually many things Like 80% and 20% rule,
Only women can get laid, etc etc are pure imagination and I have never heard before g@g. This make them look like loser or submissive.

[Luci92]

lmfao I agree, the men on gag are generally inferior to men irl.

[iceEverestere]

Don't forget to add "Not all men" or else I will get offended😤😤😤 lol jk
Cause there are genuine guys here too.

[Darkfairie17]

I kind of agree. As much as society paints men to be the aggressors, they are typically more submissive in person. I've met a lot of shy guys. Like a lot. I'm a shy girl and it's so hard when the guy won't even ask you a question on a date. I get that it's hard, and nerve wracking. But if you want to get to know a person, you have to ask questions.

I don't know if it's just the situation. But most guys I meet are quite shy.

[Death_of_rats]

Maybe you should stop talking long enough for him to actually ask you a question. We all know women dont shut the fuck up :p

In all seriousness, this happens just as much to men as it does to women. I've dated plenty of shy women, but i guess the difference is i find it kind of cute.

[Darkfairie17]

@Death_of_rats I can tell you that I definitely don't talk too much. What a huge generalization!

[Darkfairie17]

Thanks!

[SovereignessofVamps]

I agree. Even IRL dominant keyboard stupid machoguys say what they say and act like how they do, either to impress ffriends or women. No one is ever solo and foing something unique.

[SovereignessofVamps]

LOL *or not keyboard and *doing not f.

[Triss]

Yes luci
Only a very few have proved how dominant they can be😉😉

[Luci92]

;) ;) ;)

[zorro8888]

Let me get in this weird wink contest
😉😉😉😉😉

[Triss]

@zorro8888 you have proved yourself Lorrrrentz 😉😉😉😉😉😉😉😉😉😉😉😉😉

[Mesonfielde]

Lol the concept of "submissiveness" is so weird

Although the only thing weirder than that is the people who think submissiveness is a thing

[OlderAndWiser]

All men and 90% of the boys on G@G are two different samples of the population. There are many guys n G@G who are not assertive and are desperate to have a relationship with a woman; therefore, they would be willing to lick her boots if necessary. That is not a reflection of the way things work in the real world.

[Luci92]

:') I know

[BubbleBoy69]

When men get into relationship with women they eventually become the submissive bitch yes. This is why in marriage men often have to ask their wife for permission to go out, and in some cultures the wife gets full control of the combine salary in the household and gives the man an allowance every month.

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[Sholax]

I just can't help it. Yesterday, I was walking outside and saw a big tree. Instantly curled up at its base and kissed it roots. Felt so powerless against its mighty naked branches but for some reason I like it. ;) Trees nowadays are so small and frail, I like my maple in full bloom with minimum trimming.

[Negrodamuss]

90% of the men on gag may be submissive yes, but remember that gag men are a general collection of the bottom feeders in society. Just a bunch of mgtows and misogynists that are too afraid of their own shadow.

[Luci92]

very well said lmao

[DooMguy]

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It's just a theory. . . No more then that

[Blobb]

Gag is a special place for special snowflakes, society's rainbow, dick size questions and woman hate rant posting unicorns.

[SovereignessofVamps]

I actually agree with you. But IRL guys have plenty of their own ridiculous ideas and issues.

[Blobb]

@SovereignessofVamps oh yeah most definitely. I find GAG to be just extreme though, there's such a higher proportion of Wtf moments on here than in the real world :D

[Luci92]

so true. so so so true.

[SovereignessofVamps]

Depends on what you consider WTF to be though. I do agree like I said, but people IRL can be just so...

[Blobb]

@SovereignessofVamps I dunno :D, I've found the people I meet irl to be very down to earth, open minded and chill. No raging insecurities, inferiority, superiority or god complexes. Just very sane lol
Here its more like the dark abyss and unfiltered nether regions of everyones brains thats ragingly let loose haha
Its a pretty funny site overall, if you dont take it seriously. I even find a lot of the wtf content relatable on some level ^^

[SovereignessofVamps]

Where did you meet those ppl? Srsly, everyone I meet is trying all kinds of drugs, obsessed with weed and wasting so much money... they spend thousands, literally on just buying new phones, and they have all this debt... people don't have more self control or more calm personalties from what I've met and seen at all.

[Blobb]

@SovereignessofVamps Well I used to meet people like that occasionally, but they were more the exception.
Turns out my brothers social circle is made up exclusively of people like that which is astounding to be honest.
They do take drugs, very responsibly though, and theyre not ostentacious about it at all. I hung out with them, they offer nicely but never pressure you. Never get disrespectful or annoying while drunk, high or tripping balls.
And also very educated articulate people with a lot of interesting things to talk about.
Not into portraying signs of wealth, though theyre all very well off, egineers, researchers, medical staff etc...
Super calm and down to earth. I only had very few friends like that. Two-three per region/country I was in. But turns out there's tons, and they group together. Just gotta find em :P

[SovereignessofVamps]

That does sound cool! But... I still think people can be so annoying IRL. First when you meet someone new, they almost always have this horrible story to share with you, like dramatic... and then you find out later they lied about half the things they told you, good or bad.

If you meet decent people that can be awesome. Except then... people want you to share so much personal info! It's like there's no privacy anymore. Or, people get offended over the msot ridiculous...

Like we went to the bookstore and my mom said that this couple was arguing about politics. So the wife kept looking over at my mom to see if she was offended or not, since they said they were Republican. My mom laughed and make a joke, and the tension was gone but...

She said the women actually looked sacred, because her hubby was talking loud and everyone could hear they like republican/Trump ideas. It was sad mostly...

So, IRL, I don't think things are much better than this site. People just go over the top a bit.

[SovereignessofVamps]

*most and *scared

And, so, it depends on what you see as normal.

[Blobb]

@SovereignessofVamps Well I can't say I've experienced the drama story on meeting someone lol
People beimg too touchy that way, to me is not normal. Like you can have political debates, heated ones, get loud. But at the end you agree to disagree, joke, laugh and have a drink. To me, thats normal.

Adding stuff to stories to make them funnier, crazier or whatnot seems to be a thing, but people saying what actually happened is normal to me its also equally as common.

Asking a ton of questions is just curiosity, I dont mind it. Means the person is interested in getting to. know you. I like asking questions when I remember them, but making a conversation into an interrogation can be suffocating lol. Just keeping it laidback is normal to me.

Also just being secure and not overthinking, overanalysing is normal to me. Like taking things lightly and also respecting. others boundaries, not being obnoxious or overbearing is normal to me.
Im not always normal, but thats what I experience irl

[SovereignessofVamps]

I think people can be really cool too... it's just that I've had experiences and... well, although I do really like people IRL, I just think the GAG people aren't much different. They can be crazy and have weird views, but like how they express and get passionate... I think people are just as 'cray cray' IRL.

[Blobb]

@SovereignessofVamps yeah well Gagger actually are real people woth real jobs, lives, families, friends haha so it makes sense... Id say most aren't as openly cray cray irl though, takes them a lot more opening up and comfort I reckon

[SovereignessofVamps]

Yeah... I've had really social people tell em and other people really gory details of their lives, within like knowing us for 5 minutes though.

[Blobb]

@SovereignessofVamps lol "hey when I was 5 my mom and dad were decapitated in front of me by mobsters, was a pretty lame day. Since then I relive my. traumatic past by murdering people for money, im like a contract killer. or sth... yeah... whats your deal? oh my name is Dickbutt by the way, totally nice to meet you!"

[SovereignessofVamps]

Yeah... srsly I've heard stories that were a solid, half as bad as that.

[SovereignessofVamps]

And then I found out later they lied at least about some things... I mean if it bothered you so much, why would you tell strangers? And then why does no one open the convo with good things...

[Blobb]

@SovereignessofVamps lmao nice, you should buy a tumbleweed for when that happens and just discreetly drop it on the ground, let it do. its thing

[SovereignessofVamps]

IKR and it can knock over the drama people.

[Blobb]

@SovereignessofVamps nooooo dont touch them or you'll be damning the next pour sould to a heartbreaking story about how they got run over by a giant tumbleweed at a party and almost lost their beer!

[SovereignessofVamps]

LOL yes, those people are srsly good at spinning stories. I wish I had their skill honestly. Like they get anything they want and make friends wherever.

[Blobb]

@SovereignessofVamps Yeah storytelling will get you places in life, but over dramatising or embellishing too much will make you come off as a drama queen. I can't tell stories to save my life lol but I can still make friends wherever though

[SovereignessofVamps]

IKR And drama gives you a terrible history with people too.

[SovereignessofVamps]

And yeah you can make friends without doing that it's just... convos can sound so boring without drama.

[Anpu23]

There are quite a few submissive men, Yet many guys are also completely repulsed by the idea. I honestly think it's a lot like homosexuality, only 10% of all people are totally straight and another 10% is totally gay the rest have a little wiggle room. As it's more excepted for men to be both sub and Dom we see it more in guys then girls (kind of the opposite of homosexuality) interesting insight.

[Saoirse_Nua]

I would be very surprised by that and judging by a lot of the female responses on GaG, they might be disappointed because being submissive is definitely a clear preference, I do agree with you a little bit there may be men who don't realise they may be switches.

[SovereignessofVamps]

I like dom guys just not toddler or fake ones.

[Saoirse_Nua]

@SovereignessofVamps In case my meaning got mixed up, I meant women preferred to be submissive that is why they might be disappointed with submissive guys - I am not a big believer in being naturally dominant but with experience some do become naturally able to assert themselves more. I would assume that the "Toddlers" or "Fake" ones are just establishing their bedroom personas in their own mind.

[SovereignessofVamps]

Women prefer to be wanted and chased, yeah. And be sub and not have to do any work in bed lol

And no I meant how they fake ones act; like they pretend to be dom, but really they want her approval more than anything.

[gobsmacked3]

Depends the context

I am naturally confident with assertiveness going with this, i think being a teacher has cemented this in my persona.

With women I always assert, but in a sexual sense I have always been driven by serving. To me it is all about the pleasure i give and serving her every whim/desire. In this regard i am sub

[spannerotoole]

Maybe they just submit to you because of your fine ass. :-S - No we are not all submissive, We are not all cucks either, but if you're with someone who trusts you, then it's ok to submit to them sexually, but in every other point in a relationship, both points need to be taken into account.

[AmyKaene]

well maybe to some extent and i think this would apply when they really like the girl. even a 'tough' guy is submissive in the presence of a girl he really loves...:)

[Submissivenerd]

As a submisive male, I can say two things.
One, I have met very few submissive men so far in my life.
Two, of all of the girls who know that I am submissive, very few are not surprised or amused that such a thing can be possibe in a man.
Consequently, if they are, they are keeping it very secret..

[martyfellow]

I don't know of any reliable data on this. Most people, male or female, have a submissive and a dominant side to their personalities. Life circumstances largely determine which side becomes their 'standard' personality, for lack of a better term.

[BigLabs56]

Underneath their secret submissiveness, there's an even more secret domination... under that, more submissiveness -- it's interpretation all the way down! Die Welt als Will und Vorstellung!

[Chico_brah]

Only under the following circumstance. There is wedding cake.

[FýrdracaDócincel]

You are a wise man.

[Shawn58]

Ugh no, it depends on what they are submitting too as well, a lot of guys arnt submissive just because its always looked at negatively and i can't see how a guy would want to be the only reason women may be sorta submissive is because thats looked at as cute or having respect for there partner or whatever

[Shawn58]

And what's sup with these dislikes why y'all hating man

[Izumiblu]

On GaG, sometimes I wonder. In real life, no way in hell.

[TiffyPuff]

Guys on this site are cucks, not men -- don't confuse the two.

[Elarra]

Imma need you to show me one. I have. I idea what you're talking about.