People forget that everyone of every age needs human touch and care! Hugs, hand holding, a shoulder squeeze... This is why massage is SO important. Babies get touched all the time. It's the reason they thrive. But adults need it just as much. Especially people who are older and alone!!!
To offer a hug/cuddle, hold your arms wide in the direction of the cuddlee. If they accept your offer, they will step in and embrace you, you may then embrace them. If they do not, they are not frigid, mean or a bitch, they just don't want to hug you right now.
The standard indication that someone wants to end a hug is a short extra squeeze; you may recipricate, or not, but you must let them go at that point.
If someone has to say stop, or push you away, then you're getting into sexual assault; stop immediately and apologise for being an idiot.
What? You said: "that's called assault", then you said "Offering a hug may be an unwanted sexual advance which comes under sexual harassment", and somehow that's ME moving the goalposts?
Firstly, assault and harassment are not the same thing, and secondly, you don't offer hugs to people at random, there has to be some indication that they might appreciate one, first! Sorry for thinking both of those were obvious.
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Yup, cuddling is a great emotional stimulant.
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Care & warm humane treatment of individuals.
People forget that everyone of every age needs human touch and care! Hugs, hand holding, a shoulder squeeze... This is why massage is SO important. Babies get touched all the time. It's the reason they thrive. But adults need it just as much. Especially people who are older and alone!!!
Yes.
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Cuddling... a great start to foreplay.
Is soooooo nice to get and give
Good take, I agree.
Nice
Thank you!
I think you'll find that's called assault.
Then you're doing it wrong.
To offer a hug/cuddle, hold your arms wide in the direction of the cuddlee. If they accept your offer, they will step in and embrace you, you may then embrace them. If they do not, they are not frigid, mean or a bitch, they just don't want to hug you right now.
The standard indication that someone wants to end a hug is a short extra squeeze; you may recipricate, or not, but you must let them go at that point.
If someone has to say stop, or push you away, then you're getting into sexual assault; stop immediately and apologise for being an idiot.
Offering a hug may be an unwanted sexual advance which comes under sexual harassment.
Then you're doing it wrong.
Or at least when there's no indication it might be accepted.
Stop playing the victim.
I'm playing the pedant not the victim.
I don't want to hug anyone I can't stand human contact.
Then you're in no danger of being accused, and you can simply decline.
... Do you not know how pedantry works?
Yes. For example: "Offering a hug may be an unwanted sexual advance which comes under sexual harassment." is not the same as "assault".
Are you highlighting the moving goalposts fallacy? On yourself?
What? You said: "that's called assault", then you said "Offering a hug may be an unwanted sexual advance which comes under sexual harassment", and somehow that's ME moving the goalposts?
Read the second line of your first reply
Firstly, assault and harassment are not the same thing, and secondly, you don't offer hugs to people at random, there has to be some indication that they might appreciate one, first! Sorry for thinking both of those were obvious.
It's ok. People forget not everyone can read social cues all the time.
Good take
I agree
I agree
Cuddling is stupid. POINT BLANK
You just need a nice cuddle with kisses
Great point !