Even if you're not attracted to big girls would you be friends with them?

[southernbelle94]

because they may have the personality of a skinny girl and they may be really cool and not like one of those fat girls who go home and bath in their self pity eating donuts in their closet and hiding food under their bed.

[Olivia9]

I think it depends on the proportions. I am "big" weight wise but I also have a big bust, am 5'10 with heels and wear flattering clothes. So you can technacily be overweight but still be fine as hell. For example Jessica Simpson has been called "fat" but that is utter b.s she is curvacious and I think most straight guys go for women that look like actual women and not little boys ex. Paris Hilton.

[Anonymous]

I think it depends on the guy. Some guys do like bigger women. Not every guys wants a supper skinny girl. Just like not every girl wants a guy with a 6-pack.

[s3an24707]

nah I like smaller girls but some chub is ok I guess, hate that people say that "some people can't help but be overweight" I'm not a health junkie or anything but that's just an excuse for being lazy, everyone has a choice

[s3an24707]

Well update yes id be friends with em, I wouldn't date em tho

[Lumanos]

I'm friends with anyone that is cool regardless of the "body type"

[appleshampoo]

Yes.

I have many friends who are female, some of them "big girls" who are cool to hang out with and who have introduced me to other cool people. I usually hit the clubs with them at least twice a month.

[Dela1111]

No I don't because, I know the attributes that it takes for a person to get a nice body, and that is what I look for. If I work hard to be in shape, I would like for my girl to be in shape as well.

[paigems]

The attributes that it takes for a person to get a nice body? Some people cannot help being overweight.

[Dela1111]

Well the vast majority of overweight people just don't have the discipline to eat right and exercise enough. How are you going to seriously relate most fat people with the small fraction that has diseases that prevent them from losing weight?

[appleshampoo]

Some people just can not turn down a chocolate cup cake. He's right. Being overweight shows a lack of will to suceed at life.

[Dela1111]

Thank you APPLE, good to see somebody else with common sense.

[what555]

Being overweight is a choice. I understand what he is saying. He has an active lifestyle and wants a girl with a similar lifestyle.

[Anonymous]

Why don't you try dating a big guy? You can't expect a skinny guy to want to be with you if you don't want to be with a larger man. See my point?