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If she asks for the truth than she should hear the truth. It probably sounds terrible of me to say that, but I've never expected people to lie to me. I'm not fat anymore, but I used to be in High School. I knew I was fat and there was never a time when I asked people if I was. I already felt insecure about it so I wasn't going to bring on more insults to myself. I think a lot of the time when people ask if they're fat, they already know the answer and they're just trying to get compliments.
A friend of mine for example is thin and beautiful and she knows it. She'll brag about how good she looks. However around her boyfriend, she is always putting herself down just so he'll compliment her. She talk about her ass is so fat in front of him because she wants him to tell her it's not. I also know someone who is overweight, and she knows it who asks if she's fat constantly just so we'll tell her she's not. I've told her: "You know you're overweight, so why do you ask? Why don't you do something about it?" She hasn't answered. She just tells me I don't what it's like. It's like she forgets that at one time I was overweight, and I decided one day I should do something about it. I am now fit and work out everyday and I eat healthy.
Most people who actually ask those questions are only doing it for the attention and reassurance. If they weren't, than why bring attention to it? It's wrong to randomly insult somebody for their weight, but when they ask about it then why lie? They're asking for it, so chances are they already know. All they want is attention.
If an ugly guy asked me if he was ugly, I wouldn't tell him he was. It's called having tact and not being an asshole. What if your mom told you that you were an accident and she regrets not swallowing? You wouldn't want to hear that. And why does it matter if the girl is fat? Let fat people be fat, they aren't hurting you
ur telling them there fat to insult them captain obvious, If u go around stating the obvious all the time I'm guessing you commonly see this face
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If she's fat, she knows she's fat. What do you want to accomplish by pointing out something she already probably hates about herself?
Mean people suck.
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It's not wrong to say it if it's true, but it's unnecessary to say it in a purposely hurtful way and if it's out of context.
Like, if you're talking about the weather and say, "Well, forescast says we have a 70% chance of rain tomorrow, so I guess that picnic is off. Oh, and you're fat, so you should avoid food anyway", that's just plain assholish.
If you're talking to her about weight and diets and exercises and alike, then sure you can tell it like it is. But keep in mind, being honest and truthful and being tactful and avoiding brutal and hurtful language and tone, are not mutually exclusive.
I agree with you. If she is fate she is fat. But people that are fat has a very low self esteem so telling they are fat will make them eat more more and make them become bigger which is the bad thing of being super honest with overweight people they eat their emotions away. I have a friend that used to be cal fat all the time and she would eat tons of crap because of her feelings. So what I did was to ask her to join yoga or zumba with me, and I told her its super fun! so she did join and actually loved it!!! And the instructors always give great weight loss tips which she listened and BOOM! in 4 months she lost 60 pounds! Now she looks smoking hot and also at a healthy weight!
Sometimes it just takes a bit of spreading positive energy, instead of bashing people by telling them their fat and disgusting.
So if a woman ask you if she is fat just simply say "
hey you should workout with me sometime! I have some great workout tips! :D "
It's just irrelevant. just because she's fat doesn't mean she doesn't look good it doesn't take away from her outfit or her face or hair looking good is more than having a flat tummy. Some men are all about chubby girls or plus size women. My sister has thyroid problems and diabetes and she is heavy but she's still beautiful. My husband used to be so mean to fat people just because he's naturally very thin and after being around a family naturally fat he understands he was just blessed with good genes but he doesn't work any harder than my mother father or sisters he's just luckier Hell I work my ass off to not gain weight but I'm still not stick thin like him And he is lazy
I feel that if you are very good buds or even a boyfriend, it is proper and appropriate to tell her Politely: Yes, maybe _pounds would be helpful and better for you.
However, if she is just a stranger off the street and someone who is not too close to you, then again, just tell her and Only if Asked: You have a cute face and a few pounds yes, I agree with you, would be okay.
No need to be rude or crude and there is such thing as Honesty is not always the best policy sometimes. xx
I don't see it as a guy/girl thing. Generally, it is against social norms to call someone fat/unattractive/dumb etc, regardless of gender. Even if it's the truth, it can come off as a little rude--at least by OUR social standards. There are societies where it's considered okay to be VERY straight forward, but it all depends.
Do you want a girl to be honest and say "Your dick is small."?
It's an insult. Do you really not understand why you shouldn't insult people?
Same reason why it's kinda wrong to tell you that you're a fucking asshole if you're a fucking asshole.
Right? :D
Well it's not really. I am all for equality, total equality, even though most women say they want equality but really want special treatment. It's rude, sure, it's rude to call anyone fat, but wrong? I don't think so, i like honesty.
I don't know, and why is it wrong to tell a guy that his dick is small when it is small?
What if it's a legit medical issue that causes her to be fat no matter how hard she works out or diets? Like, hypothyroidism, for example?
It depends how youi say it and if the girl is fat and is heading towards a dangerius level, yoid have to tell them as it would be for their own good
Because that's all personal to her. It's none of your business if you wanna know what her weight is
The fact someone would have any doubt if it's ok shows you the strength of the Fat Girl Lobby
Ok so fat men can't be fat?
I would tell a fat guy, he's fat if asked.
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